I am engaged and I will be more than happy to provide my man with strippers. It makes him want me more. What is all the fuss about? The women have to make money. It's his last night free.I mean come on ladies loosen up.
2007-03-27 17:49:00 · 25 answers · asked by dez79837 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you people are sooo insecure and prudes it is ridculous!
2007-03-27 18:29:02 · update #1
It is tradition. The only thing I don't agree with is if there is sex involved.
2007-03-27 17:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by BhitchyPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A) Your man does not want you more, he got all turned on because of the stripper and wanted to have sex with the stripper. Since he isn't allowed to have sex with the stripper and he is all turned on, he will have sex with you.
B) Because a lot of strippers use being a stripper as a way to explain to the government where their income comes from and to meet clients. Why do they have to lie about income and meet clients? Because a lot of strippers also practice prostitution to some degree or another. So, knowing that there is a chance that either your fiancee or his friends will pay the stripper extra for a "happy ending", do you still want him to have a stripper?
2007-03-28 00:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My opinion is that if you trust the man you are about to marry and have condidence in yourself then strippers are fine. My feeling is to not let him have all the fun...he should be worried about me at my bachelorette party LOL. But seriously, most of the time it is not the groom-to-be that wants the strippers and all the debauchery, it is his friends. Men are selfish when it comes to plannning things like this...they think about what THEY would want and figure a bachelor party is the perfect excuse to do something they normally would not do. Also, a man who is serious about the commitment he is going to make to his woman will not do anything lewd. Ladies, quit sweating bullets about what your man may or may not be doing at his party and go have some fun on your own too.
Some may think it is disrespectful but that is your opinion. How is it any different than women who go to male stripclubs or hire personal strippers on their bachelorette parties?
2007-03-28 08:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by SupaDupaWoman 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My fiance and I are 28. We're not kids. If we were getting married at 21, sure he'd probably get a stripper. I probably would have too! However, we're more mature now and whereas I'll probably get drunk and dance with my girlfriends, he'll probably get drunk on a boat fishing with his buddies.
I wouldn't care if he went to a strip club. I have more of a problem with a private stripper coming over because there is more peer pressure for him to do something foolish when he's drunk.
2007-03-28 09:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is because the men are about to get their neck tied to the noose and will not have the fun they once used to have before . so the guys think they can do anything they want before they get marry, so they insist to do immature thing, like for example, fornicated or have a little affair ``or other things u can imagine that can ruin your entire relationship and your trust. But its your card to do what is best for your man good luck. p.s. almost every married person get a divorced because their past affair before marriage.
Oh and by the way I'm getting marry very soon and i ain't planning to have or accepting any stripper because i want to do the right thing and be more responsible person like a gentleman who wants to have a decent and a faithful relationship.
2007-03-28 01:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by WANTED !! 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First I want to say that if you think it is your man's last night of freedom, you might want to reconsider marriage. I don't look at being married as being tied down to someone for the rest of my life. I think of it as a blessing to be able to spend the rest of my life with my best friend.
I think it all has to do with your personal beliefs. I don't want my fiance to have a stripper, but if his friends got him one, I would not be insecure and think that he is going to cheat on me because I trust him completely...if I didn't I wouldn't be marrying him. I also know my fiance and so do his friends so they wouldn't get him a stripper b/c he's not into that kind of thing.
I think its being extremely judgemental for some ppl to say that women who don't like strippers are insecure when that is not always the case. I could argue that its pathetic that you need to bring outside stimulation into the bedroom, but I won't get into that. I'll just say that its all a matter of personal opinion and moral values.
I agree with what you you said about how they have to make $$$, but I don't want my man wasting our $$$ on something like that and I don't want that brought into my marriage.
2007-03-28 01:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by kapy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Suit yourself. If that's what gets your heart pumping, then go right ahead. Most women dislike the idea because so many men engage in sex with the strippers. It seems ridiculous that men need to go through that ritual right before they get married. What were they doing with their lives that they need to "sow wild oats" on the night before their weddings, should'nt they have gotten that out of their systems long before that?
2007-03-28 00:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by bombastic 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Because the aim of all the other guys attending the party is to get your husband to be as drunk as possible and he will be pressured into ******* the stripper. Wake up it happens all the time. Men cant help themselves. It is like having your hand in a lolly jar and not taking any!!!!!!
2007-03-28 00:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by karena k 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well because most strippers are hoes and they wouldnt mind ******* for a little more change. yell its all about money but hey hoes will always be hoes. and dont let your guy be fine as hell, hell yes by her being a hoe she'll just wanna ****. thats why i feel i dont wanna send my guy to an bachelor party because hes gonna get a little more that you think taht hell get so girl be cool about the situation if you want to but hell noll dont do it because i just gave you the naked truth about the truth. like i said hoes are gonna be hoes and although if a woman will do that. shell just gone ahead and make that extra. coming from a used to be wild woman. a few dollars for a few extra minutes wont hurt anyone
2007-03-28 00:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
"It's his last night free."
If he is considered "free" before marriage. Then, how can you two be engaged?
Think how loose that phrase is and how much meaning that places on the relationship and the marriage itself.......
If you are happy to provide your guy with strippers, then that is all on you.
I wouldn't be proud if I were you to know that he likes half to full naked girls dancing up and on him, instead of his own soon to be wife.
Degrading, discusting and proves not ready to settle down with one lady if still interested in others.
"Women have to make money"
True. It is called a job. A job that requires to use the brain and smarts than girls who only know how to shake their *** for a dollar.
My husband feels the same as myself.
2007-03-28 00:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
It is a matter of personal preference. For me, stripping as a means of livelihood is a very bad choice. It shows low moral values or lack of it.
2007-03-28 00:56:25 · answer #11 · answered by Belen 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋