Any girls...have advice on girls..?

Question

Yeah. I like this girl at work. She's 16 and so am I. By the way, I work in a Grocery Store.
Problem is, when I get off of work, she's useally just getting on. And you can't talk to other employee's while your on the clock.
Also, I'm a pretty shy person. Unlike some guys, I can't go up to a girl out of the blue and start chatting.
This girl is so beautiful and outgoing. I'm to shy to talk.
Her dad is also one of the Store Managers. So maybe I'm obligated because I feel like I could get in trouble?
She knows I like her, she's been asking about me. I have not made my move yet.
So...please. If any girls or young women out there have advice on trying to create a relationship with a girl you like...but to shy to talk. Tell me. Maybe you've ran into a similiar situation? Anyways, thank you in advance to the responses.
-Keum

Answer 1

i advise u to ask her if it's alright to talk to her outside the store, if she agrees, then ask where could you meet, but be the first to suggest a place. is it alright with her to join you for a sunday mass?
she'll probably agree.
next thing would be better.
right after the mass you could ask her if both of you could spend time eating together.
send her to a simple restaurant where yu could comfortably talk.
save the movie date next time.
just let her feel you like him, but not too much on the first time.
hope this helps.
btw, join with her when she goes home, until finally ask her if it's alright to do it next time around.
tell her you'd like to formally meet her parents but ask her first if it' alright and how would you do it, maybe she could introduce first the topic to her parents, before you ould finally get into their house on other days.
hope this helps. goodluck!

Answer 2

Your In luck Keum if shes asking about you she's defietly interested in getting to know you at the very least. Maybe you could ask your manager if you could start at the same time as her if your really serious about talking with her. If switching shifts isnt possible why not sned her a letter or drop her a phone call. Introduce yourself and be confident. If you call her go over what you would say write everything down before the call. If you talk to her prepare a conversation or something. Good Luck. Chances are she might not be as outgoing as you think but rather just at work. If you go the same school catch her in a hall way and chat her up!!

Answer 3

I am 19 and married, so I think I qualify to respond. ;-)

I think you should email her or hand her a note asking her to go to a movie with you. Movies are great because you don't have to talk much, and it can be a mature type of icebreaker. Better than getting your friend to ask for you. Plus handing her a note would be easy if you only see her in passing. Say something like "hey read this when you get the chance, I'll see you tomorrow, bye" kind of thing.

In addition to that, you might want to try talking to her dad about work, the store, whatever, and get him to like you and like your work ethic. That might make him think you would be good for his daughter, or at least he won't be so against you being "friends" with her and talking to her. - That way you won't get into trouble.

Answer 4

If you know anything at all about her, find some information about her interest on the internet, hand it to her, tell her she might find it interesting reading. Make sure to include your email address on the information that you give her so she can contact you when she isn't tied up at work. The information could be about a book, a picture, a movie.

Don't worry if she doesn't email at first. Keep trying to make helpful contact. You could also try asking for her help about something. Most people love to help.

Good luck!

Answer 5

O yeah Im pretty shy in real life theres no doubt about that.

My advice stop thinking so much about it and just take action dont think of it as a challenge think of it as just a normal move. You have to think highly of yourself to go up to her remember your no inferior to her in any way so build up the courage and say hey hows it going. practice in mirror but be yourself if she doesnt like you for who you are well then shes not for you

Answer 6

Have a friend ,Someone you trust, to break the ice and tellon her you like her.I know thats sooo 1st grade but it works just the same and at least she will know. Have them ask if she's interested. Cool Beans!
Good Luck!

Answer 7

well you sound like a very sweet guy and it sounds like you have a good chance. for me any guy that can make me laugh is good to go..so try tellin her a joke..you could even try and stay late one night and just talk to her because you said you cant do it while your on the clock. after hours ur just a customer that needs help right

Answer 8

there are just to many ways,my man....maybe you kinda scared bcos of her that is one of the manager but you could do it silently,first of cos ask for her number, and try call her...just go for it like you are a macho man....don't think about being shy or whatsoever,just go for it! and she already knows how's your feeling to her,that makes it a loottt easier for to make a move...just do a tiny move to make it happen,and the rest,just go with the flow

Answer 9

be brave dude
jus tell her the truth
maybe she's waiting for you to say the words of love
best of luck

Answer 10

hey.

just go up and talk to her. what do u have to lose? shes been asking for u..hint hint....she LIKES you. wow so hard. : )