lately ive been depressed. a month and a half ago everything was going perfect. i had good grades, a girlfriend who puts out and i can be serious with, good friends. suddenly everything seemed to go downhill when my girlfriend left me. she told me she thought she loved me but she didnt making our whole 6 month relationship a huge lie. i havent spoken to her since we got in a stupid fight. girls used to be all up on my nuts and i could find a girl easily especially when i was with my girl but now no girl wants me and i have tried. i cant get my mind of my ex. i cant find a girl to help me get over her. nobody seems to care about how i feel or anything. people dont call me which means people dont think about of me much. when i get home i go to sleep and when i wake up i look at my phone and no missed calls. my cousins goes off to parties which his other friends and lies to me and tells me hes at work so he wont have to take me. i cant get a license for 5 months so im stuck at home. help
2007-03-27 17:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by robin c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's just how life works. When your taken everyone knows they cant have you... so they want you. You only miss your ex so much because you can have her. If you had her would you love her as much as you think you do now? Relax a little bit, just let everything fall into place. Flirt with the girls but don't show much interest. And it sounds like you need some more friends if the ones you have are lien to you!! Just give it time though everything will be going good before long and you will realize that this whole situation wasn't as bad as it seemed.
2007-03-27 17:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by CountryGirlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something you like to do, like biking, swimming, martial arts, yoga, or whatever. You get extra points if it helps other people, like volunteering. If you make yourself go through the motions of having fun, eventually you'll feel it. Chances are women are staying away from you because you're depressed. Friends may still be used to you hanging out with your girlfriend. Try reaching out to do something with them. You could even re-connect with old friends. I find e-mail is a great way to keep in contact with people I don't see a lot. Become an independent person, and you'll be more attractive, which should go a long way to getting your life back on track.
2007-03-28 00:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cherish the good moments of life while they last because Life isnt always perfect. Take a walk go for a bike ride get into a hobby do something productive for the next couple months
2007-03-28 00:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girlfriend that "puts out" ?
How did you make it 6 months with that attitude ?
Only some looser chick would have stuck around for 2nds . . .
Maybe No One will touch you because they now know your real self -
Cheesy , no class , no soul , shallow booty call dog .
If you want to be happy , rent a mack truck and have them extract your head from your buttt.
Then if that works . . .
Try something radical ,
Try growing up into something that might be a keeper.
2007-03-28 00:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people change, it's a flow of feelings. it'll prolly go back to normal, just don't lose hope and try to be who you've always been that got you those friends in the first place i guess.
2007-03-28 00:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by bonto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be close to God my dear, and think of yourself before anything. Be happy trust me nobody deserves.
2007-03-28 00:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your good friends havent left you.
2007-03-28 00:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋