What should I do?

Question

My deaf son finally call after not calling for four months. I ask him why he didn't called, he says he thought I was disappoint in him for some reason or he was bothering me, so he didn't want to bother me.

Of course I was upset so we got in argue. He end up hang up. Now I have no idea what to do. I don't know his email address and I have no way to call him since he use internet to make call. What should I do? Why would he automically think he's bothering me out f blue? I don't understand this.

Answer 1

You need to go to him & talk to him. Whatever your situation is, if you don't have a way to get to him find one. Do you have his mailing address? If you do mail him a letter & make the envelope pretty with stickers or drawings (but not too girly so it won't embarrass him) so he'll feel that it's a friendly letter & want to open it.
You really need to communicate with your son & get this straightened out.

Answer 2

as a mom, we hope our child can/ could talk to us about anything no matter how big/small, as a child (who still lives at home) its hard to talk to ur parent if all we do is fight, not saying u do... it also depends on was the last conversation u 2 had good or bad, did he do something u didn't agree with, or something that completely ruffled ur feathers. so it is even hard 4 me to talk to my mom if all i ever talk about r things that upset her, or something that has upset myself, i feel like I'm just bit$$ing at her, so i would rather not talk to her until something good has happened. as a mom what i would do is send him a nice, letter/e-mail, saying that no matter what a mother/fathers love will never change and sometimes arguments happen but being family means that u 2 need to talk things out, tell him ur there 4 him no matter if he chooses to call/write u back. or not but no matter what you'll always have time for ur son, and you'll be there 4 him no matter what