i'm 19 and haven't had a serious boyfriend yet. I haven't found anyone that i'd like to date yet, and didn't want to have sex until i was in a good relationship. Now however, some of my friends have been having sex not in relationships and i'm wondering if i should follow suit.
If a guy seems interested in you, and makes hints and sexual comments, is he expecting you to say no?
Do guys like it when girls aren't easy?
How long into a relationship is a good time to sleep with them for the first time?
2007-03-27 17:09:09 · 10 answers · asked by shy_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, to answer your first question....no you should not just follow suit just because your friends are doing it. Some guys may think something of a girl saying no to sex, but other guys respect that. So I think that you should do what you feel is right at the time. And to answer your last question, there is no "right" time to have sex, but when you feel comfortable with a guy your body will tell you that it is ok, and that you can trust him.
2007-03-27 17:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and get the relationship on firm ground. Make sure he respects you and cares for you before you ever take this step. Sex for sport is not fun - it is damaging. It takes something very special and cheapens it. Once you cross the line, you can't go back. Please be patient and wait until it's right. A guy can sleep with pretty much anyone - do you want to be just anyone? Guys say they like girls that are easy. The truth is that they want to have sex with girls who are easy and a relationship with those who aren't.
2007-03-27 17:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOok, I think the way u are right now is 100 x's better off then all ur friends who are doing it. Ur pure right now and u cant let any guy just take it from u like that.Most guys just look to see who they can get into and move on,but when u set standards and limits to those people ull know whos really interested in u and whos just lookin to knock u up. U lose ur self respect and dignity and most of all ull regret these things in the future when u find ur husband, do u think it would be fair to him to have a wife who shared herself with many guys b4 offering herself to him completely?So to answer ur questions, a guy likes to see how far the girl will let him go.The easier she is,the less value or worth she becomes.the harder and the more value she holds in his eyes.Yes,guys like challenges,so we do like when girls aren't easy.In my eyes u should wait til marriage,if he really likes u He can wait an eternity 4 u becuz sex wont be on his mind,u will!!
God Bless
2007-03-27 17:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like girls who are a challenge. don't just go and sleep with any fool. if you want your first time to be special, then have a guy earn that right to take your flower. how long you should date before it happens just depends on how much you trust and love that person. as for the jokes, he might just mean it as a joke, but again, if you don't want to, you don't have to. i'd respect that in a girl.
2007-03-27 17:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should just give it up like that just wait there be a time and a place for it all and when it happens you will know and it will feel right did you know that girl that sleep around are More depressed then the ones who wait so i say wait
2007-03-27 17:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by cfhjufdrbko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him whenever u want to! its not up to ur friends. dont follow suit. go to ur own beat. some guys like it when u say no but someimes they get pissed. if ur a slut doesnt matter if ur in a relationship but since ur asking im assumng ur not so wait at least a few months.dont be a fool.trust me
2007-03-27 17:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have actually had the answer in you , don't you think? like when you say you are still not in a serious relatioship. though you say that your friends are doing it, you knew it in your heart that it is not right. there's no certian answer of when is the right time. when you are there you will know. when you are doubting, means you aren't.
2007-03-27 17:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have waited this long great wait some more. YES a guy likes a challenge but do not take advantage of him.
2007-03-27 17:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bones 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt follow your friends. you should wait untill you are ready and want to with the guy. that is when you are comfy with him.
2007-03-27 17:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by Miss K.V. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait a little longer..
2007-03-27 17:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by just a girl.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋