For the past 10 yrs. my sister has called my hubby at work and home to talk to him and forgets I live here too. For some reason she seems to find him a very interesting person to talk to, even though she has tried to convince me that she doesn't like him. He has borrowed large sums of money from her even though I warned her he would not pay her back and has tried to convince me that the only reason she has him to do stuff for her and her hubby is to use him...which I figured out and he refuses to accept. Now I think she is using me too. This past week a good friend of hers asked her to move out the stuff they wanted from their house to storage and to get rid of the rest any way she saw fit. Needless to say she told me to come and look at the stuff they were going to throw away and to take what I wanted. So I did. I also packed up the kitchen for her. 2nite i called her she didn't answer her phone yet 5 mins. later she called my hubby from the same no I called her at. What gives
2007-03-27 17:04:13 · 10 answers · asked by myninny54 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'd slap both of them.
Sounds like he married the wrong sister & you've been putting up with it for 10 years.
It's probably too late to do anything about it now because it's been going on for so long.
2007-03-27 17:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gracious. Does your sister resent you for any reason? Why would she want to have anything to do with your husband if he can't repay large sums of money he borrowed from her? He should be the one for her to resent, not you.
This situation is suspicious. Now, this is worst case scenario, but do you think maybe your sister and your husband carry on?
What I question is where your husband stands in all of this. Doesn't he think it's weird your sister talks through him most of the time rather than you?
The best advice I could offer is to first have a face-to-face talk with your sister and get to the bottom of this. Consider doing so, privately.
2007-03-27 17:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very suspiciuos. There was a similar situation between 2 of my sister-in-laws and one of their husbands. Turns out they were having an affair. This went on for months and they were caught sleeping together several times. The only reason it ended was because they moved to different states.
2007-03-27 17:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by roansaga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, without a doubt something is going on, maybe with out anyone realising it, or on purpose. Don't put yourself through this, if your sister and hubby cannot appreciate u they r not worth it.
2007-03-27 18:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is very sneaky and underhanded, i wouldn't trust her as far as i could throw her, is the a chance she is having sex with your husband? becasue he and her have an unnaturally close bond, i would have my number changed and not tell her. if you don't--and she calls your house tell her to call later then hang up. then do not answer the phone later when it rings, you gotta have some guts girl, she is bad news, no, i would put a total stop to all communication between them right now.
2007-03-27 17:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...for the past 10 years??!? OMG! What a tangled up mess !
2007-03-27 17:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Pooks 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her in a nice way
2007-03-27 17:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by nana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds weird to me.
2007-03-27 17:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by rocktillyourheartscontent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd be pissed sounds like she is trying to have an affair with your husband
2007-03-27 17:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a clue , shes ******* your hubby, dont think it dont happen, i know this from experience, women are ruthless , family or not
2007-03-27 17:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋