How can i make a girl think im not a nerd?

Question

There is a girl that thinks im a nerd but i am not and that is the only reason she would not date me and she also says i look like .one some1 please help me

There is a girl that says she wont date me because she thinks i am a nerd but i not even close to one

Answer 1

you don't sound like a nerd;) I would just let her go and find you someone else who likes you for you. Don't try to be someone else just to please some girl. Be yourself and the right one will come around.

Answer 2

She probably doesn't like you and being a "nerd" is probably not the only reason why she would not date you. Anyways, being/looking like a nerd isn't bad, but I wouldn't try to make her change her mind, because I know from experience, when I tell a boy that I won't date him for such and such reason and they continue to pursue me, I become extremely annoyed. This reason alone doesn't make this girl a "b-tch" of course, because a person should not be forced to date someone they don't like. However, don't feel down, you have all your life to find other girls. And about the nerdiness thing, it's a matter of opinion anyways, don't try to change yourself just for one person to like you.

Answer 3

Well, if she won't date you because she thinks your a nerd, forget about her. Just tell her to f*** off next time she calls you that. But think about it. If you actually were to date this girl, you would have to think, 'This girl doesn't really care about me. When I was a nerd, she wouldn't even go out with me! She called me a nerd, even when I wasn't!'
Prove her wrong. Go out with someone who really loves you and cares about you, so you can say, 'I don't need you. This person actually cares about me. And even if I'm a nerd to you, this person doesn't care what I am, and they'll still love me.'

Answer 4

try this. ask her to come over for a movie. nothing more, nothing less. then, pop in Revenge of the Nerds. as we all know, the nerds end up with the girls.. for good reasons. if she still thinks you're a nerd after that, all the better!! good luck, brother nerd.

Answer 5

Do like Bill Gates did - found a company that makes you worth 100 gazillion dollars.

Funny how nerds are suddenly sexy when they're earning 10 figure incomes....

Answer 6

If she said "i would date you if you weren't a nerd" she dosen't like you, but is trying to tell you with out being mean. Heres a tip, talk to other girls , and have her see you talking to other girls, then you'll look like less of a nerd.

But honestly, don't count on her ever liking you, if shes telling you crap like that.

Answer 7

Yaa that guy above me is ideal, NERDS ARE warm! My boyfriend gets A's. he's not a geek, yet he's actual warm. besides, that's what he did: He got here as much as me and reported hi. I reported hi. Later, he smiled at me, and that made me happy. Then he got here as much as me and asked if i waned to share numbers. and that i reported specific. And we txt for a week and we grew to alter into "ok" friends. Then he asked if i liked him. and that i reported... "yaa" And he asked me out! and that i've got been going out with him for 3 months now! he's a number of relaxing and we communicate approximately family contributors video games and plenty extra! nicely, i desire i helped!!! xoxoxoxo - Jewel

Answer 8

Sorry, but you can never change how a person interprets what they see. Just be a nice person. I would rather date a nice guy than someone trying to be something they are not.

Answer 9

nerds are not bad

Answer 10

First, take the tape off of your glasses and lose the pocket protector.....