So suffice it to say this girl I reallllllly like had this huge drama thing going on with me, and it ended up she just wanted to be friends. I said ok, now most often when someone says "I just wanted to be friends" it means your nice and I dont want to hurt you but leave me alone. But this girl and are really are becoming like in between good and best friends. Things are still a bit akward between the two of us, but only when we're hanging out with couples doing couple things so obviously it should be lol. But its starting to drive me crazy... see I think about her all the time. Whenever I see her I just want to hold her forever and kiss her. I love spending time with her thats why I love being around her and I put up with just being friends. But its seriously getting to me knowing that our relationship will never go where I wish it would. I can see us being amazing friends in the future but its going to drive me crazy and I dont want to just forget her or stop spending time with her..
2007-03-27 16:55:08 · 4 answers · asked by Freddy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let her know how you feel and that you cant handle being just friends. if that's still all she wants to be then you need to completely leave her alone. theres no reason to torture yourself to be someones friend.
2007-03-27 17:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by hottie hot hot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggestion.. don't rush the relationship.. take it for what it is a friendship.. for now.. pull back a notch...
If you two really have a friendship, there should be honest and open conversations between you .. Real friends don't let each other "hang".. Doing couple things .. are these others "Married" or engaged? .. lots of people aren't and do couples things..
Your feelings are your own.. examine deeply , is this love or lust?
do you want sex or friendship? this is what may be the driving force to the conflict. YOUR true intentions... of the heart or other.. Be honest with yourself.. and her..
then , talk to each other..
Good luck to you .. It isn't easy, i know , but, either way worth the time and effort to know the truth of where the relationship is and going.....
2007-03-27 17:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by miladyfaire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why not be more than friends? Ask her out again GL dude.
2007-03-27 17:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i'm in the same boat, but you have to think about whats best for her... its never about us its about them. if you like her or love her you will understand that you cant always have wat you want and sometimes things are better left unsaid and untouched
2007-03-27 17:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by poony!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋