My brother has been married to his wife for about 2 and half years. He moved out of the country to live where her family is, he has his own business and is very wealthy. YOu would think she would be satisfied with him, but she complains bc she wants him to have a 9-5 job and not have his own business. What do u think?
2007-03-27 16:53:56 · 15 answers · asked by Monica K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could it be that he is away alot, working weekends and nights, and she's simply missing the love of her life?
She might just feel lonely and wants to be able to spend more time with the man she's planning on spending her life with.
Wouldn't you?
2007-03-27 16:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by lola_falula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should mind your own business. Your brother has his own life and makes his own choices. He has a new family now (with his wife). Trust me, its better to keep out of things. I also have a sister-in-law that is unappreciative and has caused a lot of family troubles, the best thing to do is keep out of it all. If your brother asks for your advice and/or assistance then you can tell him what you think.
2007-03-28 00:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's having a hard time being a business owners wife, that's what I think. It generally involves lots of late hours, because contrary to what everyone thinks, when you own your own business, you do NOT set your own hours, you do the work until it's finished. If that means you're working until 9pm, then you work until 9pm.
She's going to have to realize that he does this, in part, for her and their family (or future family). She'll also have to realize that those individuals who own their own business would find it extremely difficult, if not downright impossible, to work for someone else. As my husband puts it, he would work as hard as he does anyway, it's his nature. He figures he might as well get all the benefit from working as hard as he does.
And if you want your life to become absolutely miserable, get involved in their marriage. It's their marriage, not yours. My sis in law tried to butt into our marriage when we were first married, my husband (her brother) spent several years where he just wouldn't talk to her unless he had to. Remember, your brother's first loyalty will always be to his wife, or at least it better.
2007-03-27 23:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should mind your business and keep your opinions to yourself. I'm not being nasty but I learned the hard way that getting involved in someones marriage is a bad idea. When your brother calls to complain just listen to him and be sympathetic. Remember if he was truly unhappy he could leave her.
2007-03-27 23:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money isn't everything. Your sister in law needs some time with her husband.If she can't get that from him..she can get some other guy to pay attention to her.Perhaps your brother needs to slow his business down a little in order to keep his marriage a happy one.
2007-03-27 23:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not every job is 9-5 especially when its your own buisness sounds like shes looking for the meat and taters of it
2007-03-27 23:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a businessman means you dont have any time for your family. maybe she is missing him and wants him not his money more. also being a businessman"s wife i know how it feels to be lonely. maybe thats why she wants her hubby to get a 9 to 5 job so she can have him more around. my advice is dont mess in their affairs. dont judge people unless you are in their situation.
2007-03-28 00:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't want him staying at home. Tell ur brother not to listen to her because many women would be lucky to be with a guy who wants to make her happy. And if money isn't enough, i don't know what is.
2007-03-27 23:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sucks to see your brother unhappy or suffering, but you shouldn't meddle. only your brother and his wife really know all the intimate details of their marriage. i know if i was your sister-in-law, i would not let either family butt into my business.
2007-03-28 00:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by ilovethe90s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really stay out of it. It will only make things worse if not between them, between you and your brother! He will soon figure things out on his own,.
2007-03-27 23:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by ley86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋