well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it. the next day my friend overheard her and her best friends conversation and said her best friend said"so are you gunna go out wwith him" and she said i don't know. they also said she was really really happy i asked her out. the weird thing is after likea week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. also today in class we were reading this romantic story outloud and she kept staring at me with her head in her hands and looked kinda like she was daydreaming.(0) like this ( =hands 0=head
i'm just really confused now. does she like me? shes also transferring to a different school in may.when i saw her today my heart started beating in a way i never felt before it was........i dunno what to do . theres also a dance coming up which is next friday.should i ask her to go with me?
2007-03-27 16:52:13 · 9 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know...you may want to look elsewhere...Lets think about this a moment. She kinda gave her answer already didn't she? But I think the thing that bothers me the most is she didn't give you the answer...she told you thru her friends. Maybe the two of you don't know this but it doesn't work that way. You ask her....and she answer you. Now maybe its just that she isn't quite socially savvy to these things yet but I would really think twice about asking her out again. Look....you put your heart out on the line by asking her....the least she could do is be woman enough to answer you to your face...you deserve that much. Good Luck!
2007-03-27 17:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say get the answer straight from her, not her friends. Roll on up to her & flash her a friendly, disarming smile. Ask her "how about that date?" If she says no, then you have your answer. Let her day-dream all she wants; if she's not brave enough to say yes when you ask her outright, then she'll be an indecisive perosn in a serious relationship, too. Nah, I say move on if she can't give you an outirght yes or no. I think you'd deserve a strong, intellegent lady who isnt afraid to speak her mind.
2007-03-28 00:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Spiral_Dancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not wanna get too involved bcos she's leaving soon. and getting involved wud make saying goodbye even harder den it oredi is for her.
try asking her out for de dance. show her or tell her or just do sumting to show u realli badly like her so much, ure heart started beating det way.
show her u realli want to make her last dance b4 leaving a special one.
show her det although saying gdbye to you might be hard, its worth it.
gdluck! hope i've been of help and may things work out btwn u guys.
(:
2007-03-28 00:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know wat, i'm sure she's interested in you from what u described. She might refused to go out because many people know about this.
Try to do the same as wat she's doing, look at her and turn away wen she sees u look at her, shows that u r shy wen she's around too, still try to talk to her more.
she might want u to ask her out again that's y she gives the signs. A girl normally wants a boy to repeat asking her or doing s.th coz she thinks that the boy is giving attention to her.
Try to be close to her and ask her out again,
good luck
2007-03-28 00:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by alien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her casually..be friends with her..and u would know.U have to be confident.seems like she likes u...and there's no harm in being friends!know each other better...and u would make your decisions eventually.good luck:)
2007-03-28 00:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-27 23:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by devourment289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should. I mean, if she says no, she says no, and things wont change. But if she says yes, imagine how aswoe it will be, so try it, you have a definate chance
2007-03-27 23:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by pilotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she did say she was happy you asked her out. butt you every think that maib she isnt aloud to date? i mean nowadays i no it sounds a bit out there butt it is still possible. she prolly wants to butt has her reasons for not being able to
2007-03-27 23:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Miss K.V. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go up and talk to her. or maybe she does want to go out with you but she doesn't want to get to close to you because she's leaving.
2007-03-27 23:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋