Soooo, I have a lovely new relationship, everthing is going great. We laugh all the time, we have great fun and it just seems like one of those great "fits" between two people. He chased me, for 4 months (he went home to Mexico to visit for one of those though, so 3?). It is quite a cute little story. THEN... all of the sudden, no phone calls or texts?! Very suddenly mind you. I have sent him a text with no response after 5 days of this. My logic says to forget about him... maybe he is a jerk or he is scared or something along those lines. BUT, I need to know for sure that this over, if thats what is truly happening. My question is: should I swing by his apartment and play the whole "I was worried about you" thing? I work like 2 minutes away from his place, so would this be crazy? Basically my goal here is to know whats going on for my own sanity wthout being crazy!
Thanks for all your advice! I need all the help I can get as I am a bit retarded in that department!
2007-03-27 16:50:18 · 9 answers · asked by ihavenoidea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't say that. I think you are being too humble to say that honey. Well, should I say you go over to say hi and all that if that makes you feel better. Take care.
2007-03-27 16:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like he has got another girl and has forgotten about u but u can never be to sure he might be goin threw some tough times and cant get ahold of u becuz he has no phone or anything but swing by his house some day and see whats goin on say u was in the neighborhood it wont be crazy but dont be surprised if he is with someone else
2007-03-27 23:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by jonny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um 5 days and not one call... maib something did happen to him or sumthing in the family. you should swing by and just show you care. if he is a jerk when he answers the door then so forget about him and find some one better for you
2007-03-27 23:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Miss K.V. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Avoid going by his work or home. That could be a little 'creepy'...oh, it's alot creepy.
Just call, leave a voicemail, "Hi, haven't heard from you in a while and am sadly, assuming that you've lost interested. If I'm wrong, just give me a call back. Otherwise, I wish you the best."
If he doesn't return your call....then there you have it.
2007-03-27 23:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by lola_falula 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he hasnt returned calls texts in five plus days sound lke one of two things either theres been a deaath in the family or hes dumped you without telling you
2007-03-27 23:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me..Id stop by the apartment.
Seriously what the hell 5 days?
See whats up..not to worry you but those are signs of cheating.
2007-03-27 23:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by A P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah he chased you for three months...now you are chasing him...if he wants to text you or speak to you he will, he is an adult you need to step away from it and not become some kinda insane loony stalker
2007-03-27 23:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by bailie28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor kid. You have a right to know! Call him up and ask him "what happend...are we still dating?". If he's any kind of man, he'll fess up!!!
Good luck.
2007-03-27 23:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would drop by and like leave him a note that tells him to call you and if he doesn't, at least you know you tried to communicate with him.
2007-03-27 23:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋