Ok, theres this guy i like and im sure he likes me, but im afraid to go out with him. He asks me out all the time and i say; MAYBE, WE'LL SEE. But i really wanna go out with him and im so afraid of going out with him and i dunno why?? I believe its partly because of my ex who cheated on me and im afraid it'll happen again. So what do you think?
2007-03-27 16:34:57 · 16 answers · asked by swascndy21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
each person deseves to start with a clean slate! if you like him, go out with him for chrissakes!!! and if you keep turning him down, he MIGHT stop asking.
take care!
2007-03-27 16:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by snapper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion-
I think you must go out with this guy.
OK you might have had bad experience in past,but that does not mean you won't go out with anyone.
You like this guy,this guy likes you and then you want to go with him, I think you must take the risk.
And also, do you think it would be that bad.
You must have been cheated in the past,but if that guy has moved on and has never cared for you,why are you getting scared because of him.
Start interacting with new peaople and move on.
This guy has already asked you many times,so I think, give him a chance
2007-03-27 16:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by vv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First why are you blaming this guy for your ex being a jerk? And why are you saying maybe to someone who you WANT to go out with. He may stop asking then you will be wondering how to get him to ask again. Stop with the games already, tell him, "I really do want to go out with you but my last boyfriend cheated on me and I am afraid of being hurt again". See what his answer is. Then go out with the guy, I am betting you will be glad you did!
2007-03-27 16:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Roll_Tide! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i soooo know how you feel the fear of being hurt again is something every one dreads. but you cant let that get in the way because how will you ever find happiness if you dont put your self out there. i know its one thing to tell you these things then to actually do it but i went through almost the exact same thing you did. cheating girlfriend and then when i found someone who liked me i was afraid to commit it took 3 months before i finnaly went out with her know 6 months later couldnt be happier. so what im tryin to say is yes there ios a possibillity of pain. bu tif you dont put your self out there youll never know if he is the one. well best of luck i hope everything worksout for you
2007-03-27 16:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by matt m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you have trust issues with all guys right now and who could blame you after your x cheated on ya.But its better I think if you give guys another try who knows maybe this could be the one! I think if you dont ask him out you will regret it and will always ask your self what if he was Mr. Right and I let him slip away! So I say go for it girl!
2007-03-27 16:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by paid2little 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This system we call life is constantly moving
forward, so if you stand still, you're going
backward. Sounds confusing, but watch a
rat on an exercise wheel. He's running fast,
right? But, what happens when he stops??
The spinning wheel throws him backward!
So girl, keep moving forward--life will always
be full of risks. The trick is to learn what the
risks are, and whether you can handle them.
2007-03-27 16:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 12:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by adamek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a guy feeling then follow it - f *** it and what anyone else says. I did not get cheated on by my ex but there were other things that happened - now I follow the feeling and have not been burned since. When you dont get that feeling then maybe they are worth a chance.
2007-03-27 16:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you should, you know life goes on after the ex's. If you like him, don't leave him in suspense because he will move on eventually.
2007-03-27 16:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's stupid. are you never gonna take a risk and date any other guy ever again because you have abandonment issues??? and plus, why are you spilling all this to everyone over the internet. That's something only you can resolve. but thanks for randomly sharing. NOT
2007-03-27 16:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by answerer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋