I honestly liked him. but i also wasnt going to degrade myself. when we started getting together he told me he still had feelings for his x. i felt liek he was using me a place holder and i said i dint want to be it. i left. he came back to me apologizing saying he really did wanna be with me, but she was his first, you know? then it became like a game. trying to make him fall for me and forget about her. well i guess at this point ou could say it worked. hes all about me now. and she hasnt called him in wks...until today. also today, i was on his computer saw a doc with what mighta been her nickname. compelled to read it. so i did. told myself not to!!! did anyway. it was a poem he wrote about her, this evening. dont remember verbatim, but obviously shes still on his mind...he hasnt called her. that I know. so should i even be worried? should i just let him have that moment?
2007-03-27 16:33:39 · 10 answers · asked by Romina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like the feelings are still there and you need to let him know its time to choose
2007-03-27 16:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you deserve to be with a guy who is ready & willing to focus on YOU. He is clearly still terribly attached to her & she evidently is either leading him on or still atatched to him, which doesnt bode well for you in ANY case! Confront him, be firm, but NOT crazy or violent. It's a risk you have to decide to take as to wether or not to tell him you saw the poem, but it might offer you some leverage in the whole "your not over her" accusation. Either way, I think you need to go find yourself a decent guy who isnt still hung up (even partially!) on some old flame. Let him know that you deserve more. You deserve 100%.
2007-03-27 23:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Spiral_Dancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When was the poem written? If it was in the time he said he was over her and wanted to be with you then it's time to leave him. He sounds like he is on the rebound and it is going to take time for him to be ready for a relationship with anyone else.
2007-03-27 23:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if I was dating someone who was still writing poetry about their ex, I'd end it. His mind is still with her and you deserve better. I think he needs some time alone to get over her before he gets into another relationship.
2007-03-27 23:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by insomniac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANYTIME.........anytime you look for something. You will find just what you are looking for.
Ignorance is bliss.
Bliss....is ignorance.
So, if you can't win either way..the NEW question is...Do I have more happy times WITH him..or without him.
Answer that question HONESTLY...and you will have your answer.
Or, you can keep pretending.
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2007-03-27 23:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me if you really want to know all the tricks to catch him cheating! I am an expert at this! I can tell you over15 places to look on his computor to bust his azz! I am serious!
2007-03-27 23:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's not over her yet, but give him some time, things like that dont happen overnight, give the guy a chance to move on
2007-03-27 23:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weirdooooo!!
2007-03-27 23:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by purple_85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your questions boring get over yourself
2007-03-27 23:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is okay
2007-03-27 23:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋