Well I"m attracted to him but I dont want a relationship. So he just asked to have sex with me. He said he won't tell anybody. So should I do it? I mean I want to just to feel good but it really goes against what I believe in: not being easy. Then again boys never want a real relationship with me (maybe because I am not pretty enough) I have a large forehead but I am pretty all over. If I do decide then this will be my first time doing it just to do it. I have only had sex twice(and I was in a decent relationship then) This will be my third time. I mean if boys never want a relationship for real then why should I wait around. I see it as might as well do it? So what do you think of this situation? Give your honest thought? I won't get mad.
2007-03-27 16:29:49 · 9 answers · asked by lovinbroooklyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I AM 16 YEARS OLD
2007-03-27 16:36:03 · update #1
Please do not do it, you will regret it.
You deserve a guy that will love you for your mind, and not just to have sex with you because you are hot.
He is a jerk, and is just using you.
I am speaking as if I were your best friend lol, I get upset when girls are treated like toys. :)
2007-03-27 16:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have a very warped perception on what guys want. Maybe its the guys you are attracted to that make you feel that way. But the truth is, guys do want a relationship. They do want a girl so they can point her out and say "hey that my girl". You wanna be easy? be easy. But your not gonna get the respect that every human deserves, i can guarantee you that.
And he is lying. He will tell. Guys are like that. Trust me.
2007-03-27 23:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will be called easy when you do that and yes he will tell people. He will tell everyone then ur parents will know, i dont care how old you are it is always bad when parents know stuff like that. I think you should have sex with someone you really love and someone who really loves you. I don't think you should do it and you will regret it later if you do.
2007-03-27 23:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by crymeariverthendrowninit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really feel like if you go ahead and do it, you will regret it. I have only had one "one night stand". Having sex just to be having sex made me feel dirty and even though it happened 5 years ago, I still think about/regret it to this day. However, your body is just that, YOURS, and IF you decide to do it, at least be safe about it.
2007-03-28 15:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
16, you should not be doing anything.
think about it like this, one day you will be all grown up and you will have kids of your own. Would you want your kid to do this????????
Think about what you really want in life, a boy or a MAN,
A man would respect you, so wait for it, It will come soon enough.
2007-03-27 23:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bones 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give yourself some respect girl. You need to realise that in life, you will not gain any happiness even if you give your body to anyone. So you want to have cheap thrills but is it worth it? You need to re-look into your life and your lifestyle. Priortise yourself and your work. Try to avoid sexual pleasures because it will do you no good. Trust me. It isn't worth it.Just treasure your body and take good care of it.
2007-03-27 23:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say NO!!
It isn't about "are you worth it?", It's about you being worth SO MUCH MORE than a casual hook up!
You deserve God's best, and this is certainly NOT it.
please don't allow desires to feel good rob you of what God has for you're life,
Not to mention ALL the risks, disease, pregnancy, shame, regret, loss of your integrity, none of these things is worth one night ( or w/e) of "feeling good".
Please try to wait on God, He has so much more for you!!!
J-
2007-03-27 23:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by spokenwordz03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are plenty of boys who want real relationships, so don't pin some idiots' biases onto the rest of us, thank you very much! that said, a lot of guys don't mind sex for the heck of it. if he wants to have sex with you, you want to with him, you're comfortable with it, go for it. and what don't you believe in? not being easy? wtf does that mean? remember, follow your heart, but listen to your brain. and good luck.
and for the above answerer, last i checked, "Thou shall not have intercourse" was not one of the commandments!
2007-03-27 23:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by F-14D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have sex and feel good and if he tells shoot him
2007-03-28 19:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Darkice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋