this is what he said to me why can't you do such and such? and he saids enters into my lifes he neither my husband or my boyfriend, but he saids you not a perfert christian and if I don't live up to what is his idea is a Christian then you not a Christian. He acts like he the perfect Christian and you feel like you have to obey him, cause he say something to offend you like you not good enough for God and so on. He think he on the might thorn and he saids things that are insulting to me and my mother and other members of the Chrurch. He told one member that he did not love his son because he is unsaved and me that I don't love God cause I can't read that well. what do you think of this? their is not anyone that he does not insult in one way or another cause he thinks he so perfect with God. I was wondering what your thoughts are on this? me or my mother won't go near him cause of what he saids? he thinks it ok to insult other Christians with verb abuse he calms to read the bible.
2007-03-27 15:50:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I have only one answer and that is:
that you go to him and tell him his sins.
If he will not hear you go again and bring 2 witnesses as to what is being said and his actions.
If he will not hear you go to the elders for council...and if he still will not repent...bring it before the church.
But remember to do it with love and the desire to see him repent so that he can be restored.
2007-03-27 16:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is clueless. And a Jerk! He is in no way the "perfect Christian" Maybe he needs to go back and read the bible a few more times!
Insulting because you can't read well? Some Christian! If anything he should want to try and help you not insult you!
2007-03-27 22:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ PrincessLeia ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Christian is one who immitates Christ in word and deed. No matter what a person claims to be, his words and actions prove what he really is. Christ would have had encouraging words for you and your mother. Also, his love would have shown through his words. It is sad that this Church allows this to continue in their midst. Perhaps you should look for another who helps their members better reflect the true spirit of the Christ and of God.
2007-03-28 00:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkle1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but judging from his actions, I don't think he's even a lukewarm Christian. He sounds like a lost sheep. It's up to Jesus to find him. I think you should pray for him.
2007-03-27 23:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by foreverme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like a hypocrite. That is different than lukewarm, but is still off of God's will.
2007-03-27 22:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most Christians are lukewarm, in the end.
The ones that aren't are the ones who are insane.
2007-03-27 22:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's a jerk.
2007-03-27 22:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Prof Fruitcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋