I love the way she looks now but she says it shouldn't matter what she weighs some day if my love for her is truly blind. I do love her so much but I was wondering if it is bad that I care about what she looks like down the road.
2007-03-27 15:17:16 · 9 answers · asked by Brian P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u shudn't care how she looks, just look at your own weight and u 'll be fine
2007-03-27 15:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by mebh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is her body truly.
I'm guessing she doesn't ask you to watch what you eat. I'm also guessing she doesn't restrict you from drinking (beer belly isn't sexy). If you don't think you could handle a heaver set woman later in life, look for a girl with a really thin mom. If it's in the genes there is less chance it will be an issue in the future.
By the way, it isn't wrong for you have standards of what you desire in a mate. What is wrong is assuming that everything will be perfect in all stages of life. You won't always be a stud and no woman is a babe forever.
2007-03-27 22:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Eden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider it bad, but you may want to consider finding a girlfriend who cares about her body as much as you care about yours. You could do things together to help stay in shape.
I think it is great you are concerned about her, only as long as you are holding yourself to that same standard.
2007-03-27 22:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could make her eat more .looks arent everything but if you can stay active and eat the right foods together it would be team work not just look good for babe!
2007-03-27 22:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her being fat is bad for her health anyways, and eating healthy and things is good for her. no it is not wrong of you to think that. but you have to accept her for who she is at all times or else your relationship will not work.
2007-03-27 22:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by climberguy12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you'll probably go bald.
You are a control freak. Leave her alone or she'll dump you
2007-03-27 22:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, you don't have to say that to look after your weight honey, just say you might need to consider your health problem soon, sweetheart
2007-03-27 22:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rude, unlovable, and controlling.
2007-03-27 22:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by IamwhatIam♥♥♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should love her skinny or fat love is suppoed to be unconditional .
2007-03-27 22:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋