We had 3 dates and I thought all he wanted was sex. He was very offended and thought that I had baggage... what's with that? I don't understand.. it is only common sense that tells you not to trust someone until you know them better..... Was I in the wrong?
2007-03-27 15:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, people like to be trusted, but this guy does sound like what he wanted was sex. him being offended was his way to try to get you to do it with him. you are not wrong to not trust him.
2007-03-27 15:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by climberguy12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See guys think differently. Sounds like you have the guilty til proven innocent attitude, but guys have the innocent til proven guilty mindset. I've had the same issue in the past, and I felt like the girl was comparing me to guys she's dated in the past, and basically putting me in the same category as they were, why else woudln't she trust me even thought I've done nothing for her to distrust me. Give the dude a chance, he might be alright. Hope this helps.
2007-03-27 22:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by matt1180 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys expect u to know that not all of them want sex...but the truth is that most do.. and i really don think u were wrong and if he is offended he really doesnt love u becasue he would understand ur point of view...
2007-03-27 22:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you werent in the wrong at all.. you were upright and clear about what you thought and conveyed your message clearly
i have that problem too where because i'm forthright people think im harsh or think i dont trust them
three dates are miniscule..he should get over it
2007-03-27 22:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by 3.14159265358979323846 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, i think ur right and all the guy wanted was sex.
2007-03-27 22:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by ****stars***** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. He's an as*hole.
2007-03-27 22:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋