How to Know if a Guy Likes You
Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to working out if he likes you as much as you like him.
Steps
Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly.
Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
Joke freely. Does he laugh, even if you aren't funny?
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Also study their reactions to your presence. Do they smile? Do they turn to him? If so, then there's a good chance he really does like you.
Tips
Generally, think about how you act when you like someone, and look for those signs in others.
He might be shy and/or introverted. In these cases, you have to be especially gentle and patient.
Make sure the male in question is heterosexual. Some homosexual men are more comfortable showing affection toward female friends because they aren't worried about the friend thinking they are romantically interested. You could easily get the wrong idea.
Warnings
Beware of friendly, outgoing guys. You might think he likes you but he might be like that with everyone and not realize how it is making you feel about him and his intentions.
If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way." Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character
2007-03-28 06:39:31
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answered by Anonymous
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there is many type of guy in this world,
serious guy will usually stay by ur side and plan what can he do to progess the relationship, while open minded guy may just went in and tell u the truth.
sometime asking them is the best way to know the answer, however, i can understand the fear of rejection and many consequence that may happen.
erm... from his friends, u can actually know it from his friends, when they tease u with him. it alwasy happen this way when a guy like you.
typically, different guy will tend to be attracted to certain girls.
if a guy really like you, you will probadly find that all ur secret u kept for so long will no longer be vaild. erm, well i mean ... he will definately go check on u, (examples, ur favorite colour , your hobbies etc...) come on he wan to know more about you, not being just a friends but more?
i suggest either u pick the 1st move or continue to go dating with him. you should maintain the current relation with him.
if he is keen on you , he will ask u out sometime.
2007-03-28 18:56:33
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answered by No Joules 1
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Number one: Nobody's excellent; and sure little disorders or dramas could make matters intriguing and preserve a courting alive. Number 2: Yes, men are intimidated by way of Girls (exceptionally if she appears to be certainly not anything wanting excellent in his eyes.....it might probably additionally occur if the Girl has a tendency to be widespread for all of the flawed causes and draws a ton of situation to herself; placing her possess existence in hazard within the procedure.
2016-09-05 18:28:29
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answered by hern 4
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all guyz like different things in gurls. u never reallly know for sure if a guy likes u unless its REALLY obvious, unless hes a manwhore cuz then its impossible unless he tells u. its almost impossible even if hes not a manwhore. as for telling him, its pretty simple. dont go to a RANDOM guy n tell him u like him. if ur FRENDS with the guy then jus say something like this n this is prob the comversation ull have "i need to tell u something...." "yeah what is it?" "i kinda... i dont mean this to be wierd..." "...?" "i.. like.. u"
something like that. dont be embarressed. whats the worst that can happen? if its a guy WORTH liking then he wouldnt be all "EWWW NO WHY" about it u know? just go for it.
2007-03-27 15:15:25
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answered by heyheyxcutie 2
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guys always like the flirty type, not meaning you have to have secx or anything at that extent, but always wanting to be around him, and playing with his coat or hair, or playing kissing wars. just start passing notes, and tripping him and act like it was an accident, and after a while just tell him that you like him in a note. it always got me happy when a girl did that to me,
2007-03-27 15:14:31
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answered by Cory C. 2
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well to tell you the truth I am in this EXACT same situation.. and to tell Kyle that I like him i wrote REALLY big in a note "IT'S YOU!!" (because he wouldn't leave me alone until i told him who i liked) and now.. he wont tell me straight up if he likes me or not.. so yeah good luck.. but this may help you.. me and him are probably going to the movies tomorrow.. as friends i think.. hope i helped!! :) and IM me and tell me how it works out!!
2007-03-27 15:16:02
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answered by lil_qt_red92 1
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i could answer everything exept the last part. if your freinds with a good friend of his tell him/her to the person if he likes you or not and tell you like him. or tell everybody you like him. i did both of them. he might start lookng and pointing at you when he talks to his friends.
2007-03-27 15:15:02
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answered by Anonymous
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guys like girls who are flirty and not stuck up ask your friends if he likes you if he does make your move;)
2007-03-27 15:19:58
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answered by basketball 1
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