What do you get from a person when you tell them you dont want to be with them and they reply saying "stop play". Then leave you a message saying we should talk to clear everything up and if you still dont want to be with me then so be it? That to me sounds like the person dont care. In case you are wondering that person is indeed my bf- well my ex. I dont think he gives a f*** about me or my feelings and this relationship we had. Tell me what you think about his reply. Did it sound like he care or he dont care? If you need more information feel free to email me. Thank you
2007-03-27 14:57:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are reading into this too much. You see, you're trying to read between the lines. In this case, when there is nothing there, you are having difficulties.
Don't bother with the guy. If he's dumb enough to not want to be with you, then you've got to be smart enough to find someone who does.
2007-03-27 15:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you need drama. Some people are like that. It is not a bad thing, it's just some people are more passionate about things. Other people (mainly guys) react to things very logically (opposite of passion). it's not that they don't care, they just like to deal with things rationally. It makes more sense to them then to get all riled up on things that they aren't fully informed on. I think it is very mature of your ex to want to take the time to discuss the issues in person in a rational format. I'm not sure what "stop play" means but perhaps he isn't the kind of guy that can react quickly to things like that and maybe he needed time to think about what you just said. I'm sure if you have good reason for breaking up he can't dispute it and will go upon your request. but if you want him to get all upset to show he cares then you're just playing games.
2007-03-27 15:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by caz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If ytou are telling the person you don't want to be with them
and they are trying to talk to you maybe you should really think this over.It's not how he feels about you, it's how you
feel about him. Maybe he is getting a mixed message. Go
away but come back? Maybe a break from each other
for awhile will help you decide.
2007-03-27 15:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by messenger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave the poor guy alone.
You told him you didn't want to be with him, so why should you care one way or another. "Stop play" probably means stop playing around and either be in a relationship with him or not. Whether he cares or not doesn't matter - you broke it off with him.
2007-03-27 15:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get away as soon as possible and stay away as he just wants to step on you and hurt you as much as possible. And do not be afraid to leave and leave him with a no go as in stay away from me. I had an ex-husband who liked to do nothing but hit and hurt me physically and mentally so you get away and stay away for your own good. And find new friends and aquaintances as they will be what you need. I wish you the best. Hang in there you will make it.
2007-03-27 15:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by oldestme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you talked about it already, if not then give him a chance and talk one more time. If you feel it over no matter what he has to say then tell him it is too late to rewind, the tape is at the end and your moving on to a new tape.
2007-03-27 15:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by unit663 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, did you two get together and try to clear this matter up between the two of you. Sound to me you got your answer, so pack up and move on.
2007-03-27 15:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is playing head games so sit down one more time and have a talk and if you feel he is BS*%ting you then tell him straight up and move on with your life. ask yourself also why did you split in 1st place..did he cheat on you ? what went wrong?
2007-03-27 15:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by james s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You kind of need a theripist.
2007-03-27 15:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by shannon b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋