How do I get over this stuff?

Question

Well I am starting to have really really low self-esteem. I don't know why either I never used to be like this. Im starting to care what people say about me and im starting to think I look weird event when people tell me im pretty or hot. Does anyone know how I can get over this?

Answer 1

Has something happened to give you a low opinion of yourself?

Its hard to know how to advise you without knowing your age, etc. If you're in school, a teenager, you are experiencing something totally normal. Our bodies go through changes very quickly, and even though others may say we look "hot" we may feel totally uncomfortable with the changes, even very self concious.

Keep in mind that it really does not matter whether anyone else thinks you're hot, or weird, etc. You are who you are, and that really is enough.

If you keep feeling like this, or it gets worse, talk to someone like a counselor, student counselor, etc.

My guess would be what you are going through is a normal part of growing up, but, if you are an adult and these feelings are creating problems for you, definitely seek help.

Answer 2

self inflection is a good thing. it's nice to look into yourself and see yourself how other's see you. you could get creeped out by people calling you hot etc, especially when it never happened before.

there really isn't anything you can do about low self-esteem, you can distract yourself with other things. or try to look into yourself and figure out why you think your lacking - and try to fix or fill that void.

Answer 3

just... even if u care pretend u dont. dont let anybody know that u care. thatll give em ur week spot n theyll work at it and work at it until its unbearable. i dno how to get over it, but i sure as hell know u shudnt let anyone get to u or shudnt let anyone KNOW theyve gotten to u bcuz then theyll keep doin it n itll make ur selfesteem even lowerr. trustt me on that.

Answer 4

sounds like you are depressed 1 in 10 people are tell your Doc.
now to get help