Last night, I had a dream about this guy. I did not know who he was or where I have seen him, but we really got along. This is strange for me bc I have never had a dream about a guy that I really liked this much. I am 19 years old and I have never dated. It is not bc I can;t get a bf.. I just have not found the right guy to be with. I want to make sure that i find the right one when I do decide to date. For some reason, this dream made me think totally different. How is it that I can share so much in common with a guy who I have never met. This dream has been bothering me all day bc I have no idea what it could mean.. Any suggestions? I just want opinions, that's all.
2007-03-27 14:48:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm nineteen too, and do not consider any of my past boyfriends or relationships, which were very short, to be serious.
I met a guy with whom I thought I had a lot in common with once, I finally scraped together the guts to ask him out, and he turned out to be a complete moron. He was much too narrow-minded, egotistical and childish.
I'm not saying that this will happen to you too. In my case I was unlucky, and he hid his true side well for a long time.
I've read up a bit about dreams and such, and there are mainly two types you can have. One is the kind you cannot explain at all. It's usually the really weird dreams, where unreal things happen.
The other are controlled by your subconscious. This is part of your brain which holds your innermost desires or wants. This tells you what you really want or need in dreams, especially when you seem to suppress or hide those desires from your train of thought in every day.
To me your dreams sound like the subconscious part. There is nothing wrong with them, and usually it tells you what you need to do to fulfill a certain part of your life.
I don't know about you, but being single now, and even thought I don't want the man I should spend the rest of my life with, I would love to have a really good boyfriend now. I'm mostly a detached person, and my isolation has created a great sense of loneliness. I could get a guy, most consider me to be pretty and smart and so on and so forth. But finding the right guy, and having the bravery to ask him out, takes a lot from a person.
I wish you the best of luck in this. I would try to get to him better, show some interest. And if your heart tells you it's right, go for it. Don't hold back. When things go wrong, you can always pick yourself up again.
2007-03-27 15:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there can be a ton of different things and ways to interpret the dream. like some believe that other people in the dreams are really a side of themselves so like possiblly your boyish side and it was saying that the both of you really mesh well together. other may say that soon you will meet your soul mate. i believe that you are saying to yourself thru your dreams that u want a soulmate and its about time you got one. so if i were you i would rethink it and YOU determine what it meant. there are many things that even a simple dream can mean and so it is you that determines what it means! good luck! =]]]]
2007-03-27 14:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO!!!! AVOID AT ALL POSSIBILITIES!! someone or something is playing a cruel joke i wish i could explain more without sounding crazy but i can't don't just don't pay anything attention if that person shows up again in your dreams or in real life run!!!
2007-03-27 15:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your compressing your thoughts and feelings you need to get your self out there and take a step
you dream is not in a sense a crush dream
dream can sometimes just tell you what you need
but not all ways
in your case its saying that your lonely
get out there have fun
it doesn't have to be sex just go out have fun
2007-03-27 14:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by philip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it is scientifically proven that your dreams come from your subconcise. your subconcise contains your most desperate hopes and wants in life. Maybe its just telling you that you really desire a guy in your life right now
2007-03-27 14:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by twixermixer717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ive had the same thing happen to me.. theres this guy and we get along great in my dreams, but ive never met him.. but its like hes real, and hes dreaming of the same exact things as i am, only more about me than himself.. i know it sounds weird but thats what it feels like... if you want to talk to me about it more message me..
2007-03-27 14:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was your soul mate. you are dreaming about something that you desire and have not found. i do believe in love at first sight. when you see the person that you will grow old with, you dont see their "person" you look into each others souls.
2007-03-27 14:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means there is a guy is waiting do be discovered by you who has much in common and hes waiting
2007-03-27 14:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by alex a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are getting the itch for a man. One will be comming soon.
2007-03-27 14:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by unit663 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it could be someone youre going to meet bcuz i think there is only one person out there for everyone... their soul mate. =]
2007-03-27 14:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by rocker_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋