I am not shy around guys but when i see a girl that i know is attracted to me for example today at track practice i tryied to be around as many girls as possible to make myself comfortable. I asked one to stand on my blocks then i was planning to start up a conversation with her. She showed interest the second i asked by smiling the second our eyes connected. Then i asked if she can stand on my blocks. But i was to shy to start asking her questions i just locked up. How do i overcome this. I know eventually i will figure out but im obviously slow cause im already 18 and i just want know if any one has any advice for me.
2007-03-27 14:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my problem is that i dont know their names and i just cant come up with something to talk about or what to ask them.
2007-03-27 15:56:17 · update #1
make friends with her and then make your move!
good luck!
2007-03-27 15:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one... I work in cust svc and shyness doesnt even phase me... i just try to find something in common between us to strike up conversation. I don't care what others think about me because if they can't accept me for who I am then they won't be good as a friend. I'm 19...all my friends are either 21-25... none right in my age... Why? because I find that I have bad personality clashes with people my own age or younger. They just irritate me. They are too "jittery" or "spaztic". Just be yurself and smile and talk. When I met my best friend years ago, he looked like a hard *** but i took initative b/c no one else would talk to him and i introduced myself...I found out hes super nice, and weve been best buds ever since.
2007-03-27 15:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think shyness is your problem here. You like this girl and you are terrified that she is not going to feel the same way. You shoould just talk to her and get it over with. The 30 seconds it takes to start the conversation has to be less apinful than the weeks of worrying about it.
2007-03-27 14:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Papa Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, say something that you would say around a guy like..."So how`s it goin`?" or "So, has your day been going okay? I mean, I know you`re stuck talking to me for a bit but I AM trying to make conversation for you so that you won`t be TOO bored with me." That should start some conversation AND make her laugh!
2007-03-27 14:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used 2 be shy u can go 2 the shoprite and get some nox-jelliton it really works u put it on the top of ur mouth wait 5 minutes and go 4 it i use it before i go on rollar costers cause my girlfriend makes me and i dont like them but it really does work i use it alot it calms u and relaxes u and takes the fear out of u
2007-03-27 14:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by T.Hodg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, try not to think so much before you talk. and anyways some girls like shyness :)
2007-03-27 14:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by jacksamlucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got the same shynes... (its stinks i know) i dunno :( i've been asking my dad (he has the gift of gab) but nothing
2007-03-27 14:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋