I have this one guy who won't leave me alone, hes always touching me, like sexually i guess and I don;t want it, and lately it has gotten worse and he doesn't stop even when I tell him to. its scary. and now all of my guy friends have noticed and they don;t want me ever to be alone with this guy, they always walk me to classes and come with me where ever i go. I mean they are all so sweet and I really like one of them and I think he likes me, but how do I know?
2007-03-27 14:42:08 · 20 answers · asked by Irish Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean that one of the guys who doesn't want me alone with the other guy "joe". I don;t like the one that was touching me, "joe". I like one of the ones i guess like protecting me.
2007-03-27 14:48:50 · update #1
well first thing you have to do is keep this guy you like around.. what i would if i was you.. is use this situation to your benefit..lol for example you should go to the guy that you like right and say " the stoker guy is scarying me.. can you always be near me so i dont have to worry.." something like that.. and he wil be with you more right. then you just talk and flirt all the time.. then sparks fly and you two will be hitting it off great.. im almost positive he likes you.. jeez dont worry about it.. just ask him that and then keep flirting and then ask him why you so nice to me.. then maybe he'll tell you he likes you or you can go from there and pull it out of him.. good luck
2007-03-27 14:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it doesnt matter if he likes u or not at this rate. if hes touching u and u dont want him 2, thats sexual harrassment. blieve me...been there, done that. dont take this lightly. cuz just think....if he doesnt stop when u tell him 2 in public, what makes u think he'll listen 2 u if ur alone???? just be smart and stay away. if it continues then file a report or w/e. no guy has the right 2 touch a gurl when its against her will.... stand up 4 urself , just DO something....dont let him think ur all vulnerable
2007-03-27 21:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell an adult in privacy if this act does not STOP.
its inappropriate for anyone to touch you in a way that makes you feel uneasy.
You may want to continue walking to classes with friends as i dont think he'll do anything if you are within a group.If you find yourself alone with this guy and he advances on you and doesnt stop when you say no, call the POLICE!
2007-03-27 21:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by scarlettstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the one you like to talk to the one causing problems ask him to have some of his other friends or the other ones you know to approach him and ask him to leave you alone. make sure he knows this is his last chance or the next person he will be talking to will be wearing a uniform and a badge. Then thank your other friend by asking him out on a date.
2007-03-27 21:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by 7.62x54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police that is sexual harrassment. You should stick up for yourself, report it and get a restraining order against him. Get some pepper spray, tell him no and spray his eyes. I bet you next time he will stop.
2007-03-27 21:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some pepper spray and spray him, in the face,after telling the people in charge that your not taking it any longer
sorry to say .but you shouldn't have put up with him doing it the first time, you should scream your bloody head off when he does it again and spray him in the face, and then kick him
he will fall madly in love with you then.and you will be in total control of him after that.he likes you but dont put up with stuff like that.
2007-03-27 21:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to report the first guy to the police!! Do it soon before he does something more to you. As for the second guy, just ask him!
2007-03-27 21:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tatem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the first part where this guy sexually harasses you, i recommend that you report him to local authorities. school must be a safe environment for all.
for the second part. i recommend that you ask him if he likes you.
good luck
2007-03-27 21:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by ty808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still doing it then you're not telling him to stop correctly. Stop being a wus and stand up for yourself.
2007-03-27 21:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not like this guy you may want to cut off contact with him completely if he is making you uncomfortable.
2007-03-27 21:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋