the one girl has a daughter of 7 years old and the other has no kids at all, and both of them show very much interest in me. i feel for both of them, but can't decide what i should do in a situation like this, cause i don't want to hurt either one of them.
2007-03-27 14:39:35 · 12 answers · asked by darkwing duck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything until you're sure. Just let time give you the answer.
2007-03-27 14:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the daughter must also like you and want you to be her father. If she does not accept you, it doesn't matter what her mother thinks or how much you feel for the mother. If the daughter accepts you and you love her mother, go for it. They need you more.
The main thing is to really have true feelings for only one of them. Need is not a basis for a decision. Which one is your best friend also, marriage requires friendship. Do you share similar religious and political views, are you less than 10 yrs apart in age, do you both want children, are your housekeeping habits similar? These are things to think about that mean more than her great body and hot sex. Good luck.
2007-03-27 23:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Taganan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live the one who has daughter.... coz after marriage if u go for a child... than u will be loveing ur child more n it may create some problem in ur relation ship....so go 4 the other one... and have a happy married life..
2007-03-28 03:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by herschelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the one without kids. if you haven't decided by now that the one with kids is someone you should pursue a anything with then you should just leave that slippery slope alone.
2007-03-27 21:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date them both till you get tired of one or the other, or both Live life man enjoy it.
2007-03-27 21:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by kalebs_daddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when kids are involved...if you want to get serious with a lady...remember they come together....children can get hurt...that's why they should never be introduced to the "new" person too soon....
go with your instincts...who are you most compatible with? who do you get on with? who are you more attracted to?...
do you see it as a serious relationship?...you ll know....
2007-03-27 21:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by amri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well compare what you have in common with both.
2007-03-27 21:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I tell u what give me their numbers and I'll try them out for u and let u know.
2007-03-27 21:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by Fryguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man choose the one you like best! good luck.
2007-03-27 21:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Cavaillon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go on,
be the meat in their sandwich
2007-03-28 22:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋