i just met this girl, dont know her really at all but i like her. shes 18 im 21. we met at a party, talked and kissed a little, but i think it might have been because of the drinking, idk. what should i do, i gave her my number, she gave me hers, i havent called her, maybe a little shy, plus i dont know if that would be weird or not. she hasnt called me either. i thought about sending her a text message? but idk, what would i say?we did talk a little on IM seemed ok, but im not sure if she was talking to me, being nice, or what. i would really like to talk to her, and get to know her better. also hang out with her. i just dont know what she might think. i would like to call her, but i dont really know if she wants me to. i mean she hasnt even called me. would she think it was weird if i called her and asked her to hang out? dont really know if i could even do that. i think she knows i like her i told her on IM as well as at the party. i asked he to hang out, she said ya sure. now what?
2007-03-27 14:36:56 · 27 answers · asked by wyte529 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit being a p-ussy and call her already, damn.
2007-03-27 14:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her to lunch or coffee, somewhere public where you can be alone in a crowd. Sit and talk, no alcohol, and see if you feel the same about things and have similar interests in music, careers, politics, hobbies and such. It may take several times to get to know her well enough to really start dating seriously.
What if she feels more unsure of what to do than you are and is just hoping you will call? What if you never try and she is really the one for you? What will you lose if she isn't so sparkling when sober and just turns out to be someone you talked to over lunch and during a walk in the park and you find no interest in her? If you don't try you will never know and you will regret not trying. Give it a shot. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2007-03-27 23:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Taganan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you got this far. If she thought you were a total weirdo then she wouldn't have talk to you at all. If your not that sure with talking with her on the phone text her first and just talk about normal stuff like " what's up? How's it going?" you know just plain talk. and when you guys get to that point when you feel as if there's a vibe between you two... go for it ask her to go out some where with you. and if she hesitates just say " you could bring someone with you if you want" and then you know you would have to talk to her more. But at the same time if other people go then there's more of a chance the conversations wont be bad
2007-03-27 21:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..stop it with so many questions and be confident!!!
a majority of women expect a guy to call them...not the other way around. Even if she wants to talk to you she wont call you because that's how we (women) are
i think you should text her a few times and take it from there because texting is a softer approach to calling..and it's easier because tduring texting they cannot see your facial expressions, you dont have to reply a millisecond after they've said something, and because they cant really hear the tone of your voice (which is nice sometimes)
after a few days you notice that she has replied to most of your txts, you can feel comfy calling her ..that way you wont be questionin if she's "just being nice" because no one would be nice for that long..i know that if i didnt like a guy, i wouldnt waste my energy txting him more than two times
anyways..when you call her, be really slow on ur approach..ask her how she's doing and that you're glad you got acquainted with her at the party..and then ask her for her plans for the upcomin weekend
hope that helped and good luckkk
2007-03-27 21:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by 3.14159265358979323846 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to ask her, its hard to tell on the information you have- which is also why its probably hard for you also to tell!
In my best advice, I'd go for it, how gutted would you be if all along she really was just waiting for you to ask her out some place/ and she went off with another guy cos she got board of waiting.
Even if the worst happens, and she says no, she'll let you down gently- unless she really is a prick and not worth knowing- you are young, you are in the right time in your life to experiment, try out new things and find out where your mistakes are-
if you dont ask her out, then you will always have in the back of your mind the "what if..." and living with a regret like that is worse than being told "no your not my type".
If she breaks your ego, you'll recover and be that little bit stronger, this is how you learn to cope with the bigger stuff that happens in the distant future and really devestates you.
2007-03-27 21:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the guy, you have to call her. If your scared say something funny right of the bat, so you can break the Ice. If your too shy then just txt her, ask her whats up, and what shes doing, if shes doing nothing, then tell her to call you, if shes busy then tell her to call you when shes not. Its simple. and you dont even have to say a word. or just txt, "soo when are we gonna hang out again" Im sure she'll take it from there.
2007-03-27 21:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi your problem is not big one,i think you should really give her call first ,as woman i know we want to be asked out first by the man,just simply tell her that u would like to take her fo coffee or some, if she says yes thats great otherwise atleast you know where you stand.......there no reason keep on wondering or stressing about this ,even you guys were little drunk but there must be some attraction there,thats why she kissed you and gave her # ,so be a strong.....and take the first step...................good luck
2007-03-27 21:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and ask her out. You have nothing to lose. She already said she would hang out so find a cozy coffee shop, bring her a flower, and talk with her. What's the worst that could happen?
2007-03-27 21:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Zefina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh! Call the girl! Girls usually wait on the guy to do the calling at first. If you don't call her she will probably think it was just a "drunk hookup". Call her up and ask her on a date, not just to hang out. Ask her how she's been doing and if she'd like to go to a movie and grab a bite to eat. Go pick her up, be a gentlemen, and have a good time!
2007-03-27 21:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by Motivated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sending her a txt message might be good or just call her and ask to hang out with her. trust me alot of girls think the guy should call first. good luck!
2007-03-27 21:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she could be shy. so yeah send her a text message just saying hi. nothing too hard, right? and keep up small talk. and after that see if she's interested in hanging out.
2007-03-27 21:42:58 · answer #11 · answered by .:BABY B:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋