i love my boyfriend so much but idk what to talk about with him hes so nice and is so sweet towards me i love him but i feel bad idk what to talk about with him
2007-03-27 14:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk about whatever interests he has. You can talk about his job, his future plans, his family, sports. Hope I helped.
2007-03-27 14:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you, really. Good conversation starters usually have to do with asking the other person deeper questions about themselves to get conversation flow going. However, if you're saying that you love your boyfriend, I would think that you guys would have tons to talk about daily (even if it's just every day stuff, like work, school, etc.).
If he's not opening up to you for some reason, I would start with that. Ask him what's going on with him, what you can do to help him with anything he's going through, etc., and see how it goes from there.
2007-03-27 22:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk About Things U Like To Do....
Or...Maybe Yall Could Go On A Date And Hang Out &&& Take A Friend W. U.....B/c I Know Then Yall Would Sooo Find Sum-Thing To Talk About.....I Have The Same Problem With All My Boyfriends.....But It Always Works Out That Way W/ mE.!!!
2007-03-27 21:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by caitlin l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Jenn, I suggest the next time you two are in the mall or shopping, make some mental notes about his likes and dislikes, then do some home work.
Educate yourself a little about the things he likes and then surprise him. If he is really as sweet towards you as you say, I'll just bet he'll enjoy an intelectual conversation with you about something he enjoys.
Next step - you educate him about things you like! My wife did that when we were dating (years ago!) and take it from me - she found LOTS to talk about! :) and.. I really enjoyed it !
Have a great day!
2007-03-27 21:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by doug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking about HIM...everyone loves to talk about themselves, even boys. You could also talk about current events, movies you've both seen, what's on the news, etc. Pick something you both have in common so you can keep the coversation going. If you're really desperate, buy a book of questions (links below), which can actually be really fun.
2007-03-27 21:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about anything...work, movies, comics, jokes, books, friends, family. Show him pictures and tell him stories of what happened on that day. Old yearbooks are always fun to look at. You could also put on a movie and talk about it at the end. You could even talk about letting out the biggest fart at work just to break the ice. He is your boyfriend....talking shouldn't be that hard.....you should be able to talk about anything. Just give it a shot, be creative.
2007-03-27 21:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Han Solo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats simple enough.... what does he like(his interests)?? what does he do?? Just listen to what he talks about with his friends.... He will clue you in on something. If you really want to get in his head... start asking him about what he thinks about how other girls look... like on TV, movies or out in public. Not friends or people you both know because that may intimidate him, but by asking him about other girls will help you communicate to each other what he sees in you.... Or at least should. :)
2007-03-27 21:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with my gf. what i do is just tease her and eventually a subject would be brought up like what happened in the past and some other stuff. you can alway tell him what you did today and ask him what he did. its not that difficult to talk to guys just talk about what intrests him.
2007-03-27 21:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really truly love him, I hate to say this, you should be able to talk with him about just about anything. Just talk !
2007-03-27 21:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start with the usual how was your day sort of stuff. then ask him things that you have been wanting to know about him. favorite color, favorite drink, favorite summertime memory and the like. you could then share with him yours. once you start sharing of yourselves then the relationship strengthens.
2007-03-27 21:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋