What should i do?

Question

A former male friend of mine at work is avoiding me. We were close friends b4, but we had joked about hooking up until I got upset with him since I ended up wanting to and felt like he was disrespecting me. I ended up calling him a dog since he has a gf overseas and was talking to me about doing it. Anyway I ended up writing a letter to him apologizing to him and he told me I was too weird to be his friend since I gave him mixed signals. He emailed me telling me I needed therapy and that I should get a bf and some friends. When he emailed me this, I was hurt and had been ignoring him for a month, but I could tell he would look at me and try to make me jealous by talking to other girls. I think he realized he had hurt my feelings since I could tell he looked guilty sometimes. I went up to him and said hi and he said hi. He looked at me like he wanted to talk. But the thing is I'm still hurt by him and I can't look at him since I'm so mad so I just ignore him.

Answer 1

That's what happens when you get too personal with a co-worker at the office. You need to draw a line between work and friends and during office hours, you should be concentrating on your work whilst after office hours, you can do whatever you want outside. So you see, things have gone sour for both of you and it does not reflect well upon you.

Answer 2

I think you should talk to him in person and tell him how you are feeling, and how you felt of what he said to you. if he doesn't want to talk, well then just ignore him and don't say nothing to him. good luck.