so well. theres this guy that i really like but he doesn't like me back im pretty sure. my best friend asked him out and he said yes so now they are going out. hes embarased of her tho and only said yes so she wouldnt be sad. when they break up i might ask him out but im afraid of hurting my best friends feelings and im afraid of failure too. i kno all u ppl are saying "u hav got nothing to lose" but i do. hes a good friend of mine and i dont want it to ruin our relationship...also everybody knows ill ask him out after they break up and if he says no everyone will tease me and ill lsoe my pride. HELP
2007-03-27 14:16:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Emma, You listed about "7" reasons in your question, as to why you should NOT ask this guy out. (1) you are pretty sure that he, DOES NOT like you. (2) Your BEST FRIEND is going out with him. (3) You do not want to hurt your BEST FRIENDS feelings. (4) You are AFRAID of failure. (5)You are good friends with this guy, and do not want to RUIN your relationship with him. (6) Everyone will TEASE YOU. (7) You will lose your PRIDE if he says no. Personally, I think you really will be making a HUGE mistake if you ask this guy out. Why subject yourself to ALL these valid reasons, for NOT going out with him. Where do you win here, by asking him out? Consider what you said, and please spare yourself all this grief.
2007-04-04 07:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should talk to your friend about this first and foremost. If she is a real friend she will understand! I think that you should hold off on the asking him out thing until both you and you friend are comfortable with it. As for the losing the pride thing it shouldn't be your pride were all worried about, it should be what he's missing out on! I've been in your shoes it'll all work out don't worry. Good Luck!
2007-04-04 17:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... no! if your friend was going out with him then he's off limits. If you don't want to mess things up with your friend then don't. save your self the pain and just try to get past the feelings. it might suck at first but in the end when you think about how much could have gone wrong but didn't you'll thank your self. If he didn't ask you out before maybe he thinks of you as a friend.
2007-03-27 21:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him out. Let the relationship develop slowly. Find some things to do with him that do not seem like dates. Lunch, for example. Mini-golf, bowling. Daytime activities.
Then wait.
If nothing happens, stop.
2007-04-04 20:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont ask him out. u might lose ur friend if u do and i am sure u dont want that to happen. if u dont do it then nothing will happen excepet u wont get the guy
2007-03-27 21:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by mexico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should ask him out for a while after but if you do first tlak to it with your frined first. You don't want to ruin a frinedhsip over a guy.
2007-03-27 21:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by tiny nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't even think of it
2007-04-04 20:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by naija queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋