I really like this one guy, and we're friends, but he has a girlfriend. She's my friend too, and I'm happy for them, but jealous too. But I also know for a fact that she's cheating on him (like I always guessed she would). What do I do? Should I tell him?
2007-03-27 13:50:23 · 9 answers · asked by Vanessa H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people would say you should tell him, but if you did what do you think would happen? He would think you were a great friend right? But think of it this way, what if he thinks you are butting into his life and all you want to do is have him break up with his girlfriend to go out with him yourself? That wouldn't be good! I think you should make him understand that you are always there for him and that if you went out with him you wouldn't hurt him like that. You could bring him to the places where his girlfriend and her other boyfriend hang out and say like, "Hey isn't that ______".And if he is smart enough, he will understand that she isn't acting right and you are a better girl for him! Good luck and God bless you!
2007-03-27 13:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by loving live:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 19:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Elnora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling him would be a good idea but at the same time it might not be.i know when i told my BEST friend of like 14 years that her boyfriend was cheating on her she didnt belive me and she told me i was just jelous and we never spoke again. so if you really wanna risk it then tell him
but at the same time not telling him would be dangerous because he will get really hurt and youll have a bad feeling cause you didnt tell him
but to be honest just sticking with him as a friend no matter what and just not butting into the buisness might be the best choice because that way when he does find out he has you to say he could always count on you....and if something happnes that you really know you should tell him about that you have no doubts tell him or if you can proove to him she is cheating tell him but if not i think just being his friend and sticking with him no matter what would be the best
good luck
2007-03-27 13:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by love_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing is believing. Take him where she hangs with her lover.He might not believe your story because he might think you like him and you just trying to break the relationship.
2007-03-27 13:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone else to tell him or go to a payphone and tell him but get like your cousin or brother or even sister to do it so your girl cant blame you yet he knows the truth
2007-03-27 13:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by CupCake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him only if you trully think he'll be calm about
becuase your friends with both of them
think about how he feels
should he know about this or not?
2007-03-27 13:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by daisylady2601 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and find out who she's cheating on and beat the piss out of him
2007-03-29 19:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but remember they might both get mad at you and you may lose both of their friendships.
2007-03-27 13:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Alone again 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were a good friend, you'd tell him.
2007-03-27 13:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋