Wat do u do when Ur boyfriend cheats on u but u still love him??

Answer 1

You go to the nearest mirror, look at yourself
and yell "YOU FOOL!" ten times as loud as you can.

Answer 2

You can do two things.

One- End the relationship, which is what most everyone here is saying. But being more blunt and saying "dump him"

Two- Stay with him and be constantly worried that he will cheat on you again. Lose sleep over the fact that he might (and most likely will) do so again. Then you will go into a deep depression and later down the road when and if you find someone else you will a constant problem of trust, never fully trusting your mate always worried if they will do the same. But if the relationship does in fact stay in tact in will be by very thin threads and you will sit at home while he stays late at work, doing exactly what you worry about. But now it is too late to break up the relationship because you have children. You oldest son rebels not having a steady father figure. After finially getting the devorce several years later you find someone you trust more, but not fully. You son still rebels and continues down the same path as the birth father.

You can always skip option two. Do so

Answer 3

if you want a serious boyfriend, you will move on. a guy who cheats has NO respect for you or women, and he will continue to do it over and over.

i know it may hurt for a while to be without this guy because you love him, but trust me, it is the best thing for you. don't you want to have a guy that feels the same about you. when you find him, it will all be worth it! i'm sure you are young anyway, so do what i should have done and just have fun! you CAN have a life w/o a serious bf.

i have had two serious relationships before the bf i have now. they were both lying cheaters and i stayed with them way too long. i am positive my present bf would never do anything like that! you just need to be patient and you will find the right guy.

Answer 4

When I was 16, my first boyfriend cheated on me. He told me the truth and broke up with me because he felt that I didn't deserve a guy like him; he said that I deserved someone who would treat me with love and respect. We had been dating for 8 months at that point. A month later, we got back together. I decided to forgive him; I believed (and still do) that everyone deserves a second chance. Unfortunately, he continued to cheat on me off and on for the next 9 months of our relationship. Finally, I dumped him. It hurt for a few months, but (and I know this sounds silly, but I'm serious) one day I just woke up and I didn't care. I realized that I don't need a boyfriend to validate ME; I am a wonderful person without a guy on my arm at all times.

I guess my point is: you can give him a second chance if you think that he really feels bad about it. You need to let him know that you are not going to trust him for a while - he needs to regain your trust. If he can't deal with that, then you need to leave him. And if you decide to leave him, it won't be the end of the world - things will definitely suck for a little bit, but trust me - you'll end up feeling so much better about yourself in the end.

Good luck in whatever decision you choose to make!

Answer 5

It is hard to take your heart back from somebody u gave it to that u felt deserved it you have to love yourself even when it hurts it is going to hard be to let go but whatever u do dont stoop to that level dont do the same because after that u will just be as wrong as him u need to keep eyes open and ur game face on it okay to love him still but u need time to yourself to think about there is a chance it may happen again that is chance it that is up to only u so
MAKE NEXT MOVE YOUR BEST MOVE

Answer 6

You get rid of him as fast as you can. He is just using you. He knows that you do love him and he can get away with it because you do love him. Even IF he did change, could you ever trust him again? No you couldn't!! If he did love you he wouldn't do that to you. Get rid of him and find some one that deserves you, cause you deserve better than a cheater. I hate a player very bad, and that is what he is, a player.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

think about how he cheated on u....he didn't love u or care about u when he was cheating......."once a cheater always a cheater" stay away from him before he takes full advantage of u and hurt u.

Answer 9

then tell him how much it hurt u but that u want to continue the relationship and that if he doesn't want to be exclusive. after he answers then it's ur choice to answer okay or no way.

Answer 10

Move on and get tested for things,especially if you are in a sexual relationship.
No one is worth your health,or your energy.