what do girls really find attractive in a guy. is it about the look or is it about how much he cares about u
2007-03-27 13:45:20 · 17 answers · asked by lilmed4ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality and trust. I would like him to look at least decent, but that doesn't matter. All that matters is that he cares & loves me.
2007-03-27 13:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Faith P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cares about you.....well it takes a long time to find out if a guy cares about a girl. They don't show affection and passion on the first months. Everybody falls for physical attraction.
2007-03-27 20:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words mean nothing and looks fade, so here are some of my turnons and turnoffs
On- Public Display of Affection
Off- Public Display of Emotions
On- Defending me in my presence or absense
Off- Letting people say what please about me
On- Dominence
Off- Controlling
On- Playful
Off- Goofy
On- Business and Financial Sense
Off- Frivolous Spender
On- Sporadic
Off- Ambiguous
On- Romantic
Off- Sappy
Oh, I could go on, but this is just me talking. Hope it helps.
2007-03-27 21:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, for me its a little of both. The look is not as important but it helps if the guy takes care of himself and takes pride in his apperance. The most important things women need is Honesty, A good sense of humor and good manners. Honesty is the most important for me. If you lie to a woman, we will not trust you and if there is no trust there is no relationship. We love to be kept laughing and we want someone who will be polite around our friends and family. If you just be yourself, women will flock to you. We hate fake guys. Be you and that is always enough. If women dont like you for who you are, they are not worth the time.
2007-03-27 20:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by big mamma 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if I was married the thing that I would find attractive in my husband is his smile, his eyes, his looks, that he cares about me and how his butt looks in the jeans that he is wearing.
2007-03-27 20:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda both...first thing i notice about a guy is his eyes and smile, but I would say personality is #1
If he's a nice guy & he has a good sense of humor it doesn't really matter what he looks like (within reason of course)
2007-03-27 20:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by chickflick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the guy i like isnt the hottest guy and i dont want to sound conceited but people tell me i'm like model pretty so they think i'm stuck up and only go for the popular guys well i dont they guy i like hes majorly hot like af models but hes cute and adorable and hes the nicest person to me and likes me for who i am thats what i love about him so much good luck with finding out whatever your trying to find out
2007-03-27 20:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....it takes looks to make a girl even think about getting to know a guy but one they meet him, its all about his sense of humor and his caring attitude and personality.
2007-03-27 20:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some gurls it's about cuteness and some its about how much he cares but both is best.
2007-03-27 20:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Audrinna W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wELL WHAT ATTRACRED ME TO MY EX WAS HIS EYES. SONCE I'M NOT A MATERIALISTIC PERSON HE OCCU. WASN'T ON MY RADAR. ALOT OF MY FRIENDS ARE ATTRACTED BY THE WAY A MAN WILL TREAT THEM.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-03-27 20:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by DADDYS' GIRL 4LF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋