ok so i have went out with this guy who is 16 im 13 and we broke up about a year a go and we have been freinds for the longest time. he wants to get back with me and i still have feelings but im scared cause i dont know if he just wants to use me or play me!what sould i do?
2007-03-27 13:35:13 · 21 answers · asked by girl_that_is_blue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try getting back together, but tell him u wanna take it slow...the fact that hes 16 means that hes may have sexual cravings, so dont get caught up in ne of his fantasies
2007-03-27 13:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that is a hard question. What u 1st have 2 do is get advice from 1 of ur closest friends. Then keep a close eye on him when he's around other girls. If u aren't n his school get sum1 like a friend or cousin 2 do it 4 u. Oh yeah if u r really close 2 him u should be used 2 him by now. If he treats u good & makes u feel special when ur with him dont fall 4 it until after u make ur decision. After u observe make ur decision good luck.
If u need more advice...email me @ denita8@aol but make sure u tell me who u r & where I know u from
2007-03-27 20:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, He is to old for you. You know exactly what he wants'. Do you want to end up being just another statistic. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't rush things.
Look at Britney, She had the whole world in her hands. BUT she rushed things and ended up married to a money hungry broke guy Who left his family to be with her. Now that she has 2 children with him, she is full of regrets and has even tried to comit suicide. I am sure she wishes that she did not have to grow up too soon.
- Every time you want to date an older guy out of leauge THINK about Brittney. She is Rich, has 2 adorable babies and a husband, But all she wants to do is use drugs - shave her head and off her self.....
Trust me. You have plenty of times to worry about boys. IN 5 years you wont even be thinking about that boy!!!
2007-03-27 20:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by paprica0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. thats really weird. im 13 and my bf is 16. we went out a year ago and then we broke up and stayed best friends. he asked me out again and i decided to give him another chance and so far it has been amazing. you just need to watch your back and keep in mind the reason you broke up in the first place. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-03-27 20:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too old. I know you probably hear this a lot but honestly, when you are 16 you will be disgusted by anyone who dates a 13 year old.
2007-03-27 20:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him to back off. It sound like he wants to just play you. and i dont think you are ready for that bc you are too young. But im the same age and i no i would NEVER hang out with guys like that....
2007-03-27 20:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Katy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable around him, you should definately get back with him. However, if you're really having second feelings, perhaps it would be better to wait until you're at the maturity to handle the situation. Good luck
2007-03-27 20:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by irish1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant make the choice for u but since u guys have all ready dated then i think u should go for it i would just try to make sure that u know him really well and since u dated before then i think u should be ok!
2007-03-27 21:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by dirky15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be dating a 16 yr old at your age.
2007-03-27 20:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him since you 2 still have feelings for each other
but if you noticed hes trying to use you are play you then just break up
2007-03-27 20:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Adrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋