Well I Have this friend who is a guy and another friend who is a girl the guy really likes the girl but let's just say that the girl and her ex boyfriend broke up four weeks ago he asked her out but she said no i went to go talk to her she told me that she is scared that she might get hurt again so basically she thinks that all men want one thing what should she do.
2007-03-27 13:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by ronald R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she needs time and is not ready for another relationship right now. As her friend, you must respect this and not try to play the matchmaker. Advise your guy friend not to pressure her and give her time. If they get together, it will be when they are ready. And yes, she might get hurt again, love is like that.
2007-03-27 13:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by greengo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She obviously doesn't like your "guy friend", which he asked out of selfishness and not taking her past ordeal into consideration. After asking her out I don't think he has the chances of being with her if he persisted. It was too sudden on her. She saw that he wanted her instantly and that's why she believes guys want one thing. Four weeks wasn't enough time for her to even take a breath on her own. He needed to give her her space to show some level of respect. Tell your friend to do what she is doing now, just wait it out. She doesn't need to be quick to get back into dating. In time, she'll come across someone who isn't harmful.
2007-03-27 20:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should wait until she feels comfortable enough to date again. She needs to give herself time to heal. Then....she should go for it but to be more careful next time. I'm not saying the breakup was her fault but she shouldn't let her guard down too much in the beginning.
2007-03-27 20:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think she should not be going out with any guy just yet until she will ready to accept dates. She needs time to heal her wounds.
2007-03-27 20:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait,give herself time to adjust to being single again. and think rationally again. we all tend to become over reactive when we experience a break up. tell her to get to know the guy as a friend and see how it goes from there. you can alot about a guy and his motives by being his friend.
2007-03-27 20:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by kalitajothy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we all need to take a break and find ourselves. Tell her to find herself and what she really wants in life. Time will heal and so will her self esteem
2007-03-27 20:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy to give the gal a kit kat.
2007-03-27 20:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋