every fight we get into he turns it around on me like i did something wrong, then i spend the rest of my time dfending yself or apologizing for something i didn't do.
2007-03-27 13:29:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can make you feel anything without your help. You can control only one person in this world, you. He can think what he wants, but your life is up to you. Decide if you want the drama or would rather build character and begin living your life for yourself, not others.
2007-03-27 13:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't let him make you feel like its your fault. Stand up and get a back bone. Next time he tries to trun the table you trun it before him. Write down the time the fight starts and write how you felt and what happend. Then read it to him. He's only making himself look like an jerk.
2007-03-27 13:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Hot asain mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 02:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend who isnt afraid to be wrong and who treats you the way you deserve dump him
2007-03-27 13:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get so involved the argument that you can't recognize that he is turning things around and when he starts to turn things around, say stop I am not going to let you manipulate me any more, this is not my fault, and I am not going to let you make it look like it is.after you defeat him with words,if he hits you call 911.
2007-03-27 13:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Injure yourself and tell everyone who will listen that he did it, even the police. He will soon realise that feeling guilty for something you didn't do is no fun.
2007-03-27 13:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get into fights. He makes you feel bad.
Get the picture? Dump him. Pronto.
2007-03-27 13:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by sonyack 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIMM!!!!! he is someone that i would not want to be around ever and if he is abusive that is worse, also you could prolly find someone else that really cares about you and your feelings and would not blame you
2007-03-27 13:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a control freak.
2007-03-27 13:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by biggobbler51 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like time to play: 'Dump the chump'.
2007-03-27 13:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by Repub-lick'n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋