I'm in my late 20's and currently undergoing a Masters Degree. Ok, i started noticing this girl during our first year at university We bacame friends and after a few years later, we met again in my hometown. This time I was quite close to her as friends where we started hanging out at her home, having dinner and trip with her family. To cut story short, I know everyone in her family and she doesn't seems to be awkward about it.
Things change n she got a job overseas and lost touch until another 3 years later. This time, i manage to send her a birthday message in which she responded positively (wants to meet up). I really enjoyed the short 3 days with her and our old friends. Before leaving for overseas again, i made her a cd as a belated birthday gift and wish to see her again in the future. I sent her off with her mom alongside. She is single again and I'm not sure whether it is wise to rush it by confessing my feelings. What should i do?
2007-03-27 13:07:22 · 10 answers · asked by BuddyShy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What your experiencing man is evolving love! Which in alot of cases is the best kind. From the sounds of it this girl wants you to be a part of her life. Now whether that means something more than friends is unknown but the possibility is definately there. I would continue to be the guy that she's always known. As far as confessing your feelings to her i would definately wait until you see her again. But it wouldn't hurt to drop a few hints here and there to make her mind start churning. The reason i say to wait is bc it will mean sooo much more saying it face to face. Your situation sounds a bit like the movie "Just Friends." But i wish you luck brother and i hope this helps a bit.
2007-03-27 13:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by theHOCK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's still trying to get over her ex, then you might want to wait it out a little bit..she's probably experiencing a lot of emotions..and you don't want to put her in a position to be confused. Be there for her. Nevertheless, i think you should tell her when you get the chance to..just be cautious about when to express or confess your feelings.
2007-03-27 13:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by PB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it man you're not a teenager anymore. Having said that would you be able to handle the long-distance relationship? I heard most men hate it.
2007-03-27 13:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Batman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh lordy lordy, Sit in the box with that priest and confess my brotha! Seriously, don't hold back, this chancr could pass and you might regret it.
2007-03-27 13:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you Asian or what? Get on with it and make your move. If she is not interested you better find out now before YOU wind up the " old maid "
2007-03-27 13:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by Justin Case 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pour your heart out.... but say hey wanna go grab a bite and let nature take its place in you love life
2007-03-27 13:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as you confront her and tell her the truth otherwise you'll gonna be late.another guy gonna approach her and then,,,,,,,,,,,,,,too late.be a man and confront her.she needs to know the truth.
2007-03-27 13:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Bee"G" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a story like that....GO FOR IT already!!
2007-03-27 13:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her and dont hold back the truth be truthfull and she will thank you for it in the end
2007-03-27 13:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by qasarasara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people write books ?
2007-03-27 13:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by ashlandtree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋