ok here is the problem... first i have a bf and we usually talk either on the phone or online.. we usually say hi to each other then we start to talk for a while but all of sudden it gets all silents... and after that he asks me to open a subject and talk about it but i usually dont know what to talk about... so anyways i'm just scared if he would leave me just cuz i talk less or anythin.. so my question for u guys is how can i keep the conv going or what topics should i talk about? thanks!!
2007-03-27 13:06:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Favorite movies, what you do in your spare time, about your day, music, friends, family, love, marriage, feelings, you past, his past, your present, his present, your future ideas, and his future ideas. Just talk about anything and everything. What you two are into your favorite shows anything.
2007-03-27 13:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Awakened 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just think about whatever the two of you are talking about at the moment and see if there is anything you can relate to it, like things that have happened. For instance, if he's talking about how much fun a certain water park is, just pipe up and be like, "Oh, well in Minnesota, there's this park. . ." and then he'll most likely have something to say to that, too. But if you guys don't have anything to talk about, it may be a sign that things are getting boring and it's time to move on, or that you really don't know each other that well. <3
2007-03-27 20:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by The Prep 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you have problems talking over the phone - then dont' talk on the phone. i'm terrible at conversations. it might be better if you go somewhere that you can both enjoy and talk little but share something in common. like go to the zoo, or the aquarium, or a movie and talk about that and see where it leads too.
i'm the kind of awkward silence, and i think this is the best approach.
2007-03-27 20:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by mike s 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Silence can be romantic ya know? Not everyone has those kinds of relationships where you can talk on and on about nothing for days.. But don't forget most relationships start that way.. it will be less awkward over time.
2007-03-27 20:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by offspring_fan123 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just talk about a favorit sport team or his favorite something
just talk about the day or past times or something like that
2007-03-27 20:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by cool guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you try talking about something you like? You could just talk about your day or bring up something completely random!
2007-03-27 20:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there's only so much to talk about before it gets dull with anybody so dont expect it to be different with gf or bf.
otherwise just make stuff up
2007-03-27 20:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He shouldn't break up with you.And if he does........he wasn't right for you.He shouldn't ask you to start conversations,he should to start them himself,or just say "What do you want to talk about?"That's all I can say.Good Luck!!
2007-03-27 20:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by cheyenne c 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like you're not understanding of what a true relationship is...you're probably pretty young...talk about interests I guess...what you're thinking about...I don't know there's a lot of things to talk about instead of giggling and saying I don't know what do you want to talk about
2007-03-27 20:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk about things that happened to you....like "this one time i got blah blah balh..." you know? or start watching tv then talk about whats going on on tv.
2007-03-27 20:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by Smile :) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋