Ok, I've been dating this guy for 6 weeks now and from the moment we met we have been inseparable. Well, he drinks and on two separate occassions I've found when he drunk he tells me things like "your the one", kisses on me, caress my face, tell me i'm sexy and beautiful, and I'm perfect to have kids with, holds on to me tight, have all his friends look at me to tell them how pretty i am he doesnt want to get hurt and hes scared....and then theres the next day when he has sobered up it's something opposite. I don't ask I just listen and he says things like " he too busy to have a relationship" or other non-chalant comments etc. So I'm confused as to rather he's been honest when he drunk and its the things he cant say or it's just pure B.S.! Help!
2007-03-27 13:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have since talk to him and those were his true feelings.
2007-03-29 10:05:50 · update #1
Chances are that the drunk is just trying to get laid and the sober guy is telling you the truth.
2007-03-27 13:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by frankmoore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts.
My husband did that kind of thing when we had just met. He would get drunk with me and say he loved me so much and he wanted to have a baby. This was after like 3 months of seeing each other. Then when we sobered up he would never mention it. I didn't say anything cause I didn't want to embarrass him too much. I just let things flow and eventually he proposed. He was telling the truth when he was drunk because I guess he was too nervous to say it while he was sober.
If you have already had sex with him then this may be the case. But if you haven't had sex with him yet, he is probably just saying it to get in your panties.
2007-03-27 13:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People say dumb stuff when they are drunk, because they know they can blame it on being drunk the next day. It is pure B.S.
If he says he doesn't remember saying these things, he is a liar, too. There is no way that you forget everything when you are drunk...You do remember some of what you said, and often you remember it all too well.
2007-03-27 13:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Missy (aka: La Tigres) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say alot of Sh** when they are drunk, most of the time they say it just to get attention, but I have found out that sometimes if the person is too scared to say stuff when they are sober, they get a little liquid courage, ask him when he's sober, and if he says he don't remember, that should be a clue of what the future holds.
2007-03-27 13:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he gets mushy and honest when he's drunk. Maybe he's telling you what he wishes could be true, but then his sober thoughts ruin things. When he's drunk he forgets that he is too busy, then when he is sober he remembers. Or the liquid courage lets him put his heart out to you, but when he's sober he protects his emotions. Or he is exaggerating lust into love. I love everybody when I'm drunk. Try to get him relaxed in private, without alcohol
2007-03-27 13:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grade A B.S. I've been drunk, and I told lady friends I love them and basicly the same thing he tells you. Have a nice SOBER conversation with him about this.
2007-03-27 13:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he's serious or he wants to get in ur pants when he's drunk. u can't always tell if the guy is being honest when someone is drunk becuz i was drunk once and i just met this guy and i called him baby and i loved him. and i didn't even rember saying it until my bestfriend told me. just go to him and tell him what he say's when he's drunk. just don't attack him when u tell him. be like do u rember wat u told me yesterday or that night, then tell him
then maybe he'll give u a straight answer
2007-03-27 13:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by melissa d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated somone like that. All I can say is that you deserve better and should find someone else. if that is what you are looking for in a guy there are plenty of guys out there looking for the same.
2007-03-27 13:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by buddafly_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knew u have been below the effect of alcohol and kindaa took benefit if u question me. If he duz like u he desires guy up and tell u wen r sober and he won't be able to hold something against u by way of fact, like I sed u have been below the effect of alcohol. perhaps he became to scared to tell u wen u r sober so he theory ooh, shes no longer gona endure in ideas this yet hi, he cuda been below the effect of alcohol to. So ya, solid success x
2017-01-05 03:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pure B.S.! Be aware
2007-03-27 13:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by All Natural Honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋