okay, im 14 and i go to church with these 2 guys that i both really really like....Zach is 15, Alex is 14. Last year, i had a big crush on zach but he was a TOTAL jerk, but i told him i didnt like him and he stopped being mean. now he is S0O0O0O0O0O0O0 SWEET TO ME! he has a fake reputation for being a man wh0r3 but he really isn't his old gf made it up...now he kinda flirts with me and talks to me without me striking up a convo with him...im afraid that if i tell him how i feel, he will go back to his old..self wat do i do??
I have known alex since i was 4 soo we are really good friends...everybody says that he likes me...i do catch him CONSTANTLY staring at me from across the room but i dont want to ask him how he feels b/c i dont want us to feel awkward around each other, but he won't ask me out??? does he like me?? wat am i doing wrong??!
2007-03-27 12:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by Victoria <3! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first boy likes you because you told him off, he thinks your playing hard to get, you dont really like him, you just like the way he looks, The second boy is in love with you, you have been friends all your life, and you have to ask yourself, who do you want, the good looking one that treated you like ****, or the one you have known all your life and is really in love with you...
2007-03-27 13:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Nice guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Zach sounds quite pretentious. He's be putting up an act by being sweet so you'd begin to like him. Or, he was acting to be tough and mean in the beginning to show off, but it turned out you weren't attracted to that type of attitude, so he changed his strategy. Either way you can't predict how he's going to act later. I'd be careful around this one. He just really wants to impress you.
Alex likes you and he's shy. Ask him, just break the ice and get it over with since he's not going to do it. If you do like him, show that he can be comfortable with talking to you. Ask him enthusiastically.
2007-03-27 20:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, all I can say is. Be with Alex, he knows you better & you probably know him better than you do Zach, plus he sounds like he's gonna treat you right. So if he doesn't let you know how he feels, try giving him some hints letting him know you're interested in hearing what he has to say. Again girl, be with Alex. A flirt PROBABLY won't stop flirting even in a relationship.
2007-03-27 20:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first for Zach, you should tell him to not be a jerk. If he really likes you, he shouldnt be a jerk. He is probably just shy to show you how he really feels. If you really like him and think it will work out than tell him how you feel.
For Alex, he is probably shy. You should give him an opportunity for him to ask you out. Start talking to him about something and just let him feel comfortable enough to tell you. If you like him alot, you could always ask him out.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-27 20:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Brendan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Zach is going to be a jerk when he knows you like, forget about it. Why would you wanna date someone who treats you bad?
I'd say forget about Alex if you want to keep a friendship.
From personal experience I warn you that dating can ruin even the best of friends. If you do wanna date him, just ask him if he likes you. Its hard, but just take a deep breath and ask. It'll pay off, he probably does like you.
2007-03-27 20:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by krizzmiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a leopard wont change jts spots you said your self zach is a total jerk.so keep him at a distance,move on to alex.just being with him will make talking easier.after a while you will get a relation ship going..after all rome wasnt built in a day.
2007-03-27 20:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by helly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Alex to be your escort to a school or church function. The rest will fall in place from there.
2007-03-27 20:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just lay it on zach easily dont just go up to him & say i dont like you be nice wait for the right moment & as for alex wait until the time is right for him he will tell you
2007-03-27 20:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by zorro 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if this is guy trouble, someone please tell me what i've been doing wrong all these years.
you're 14. you have your entire life ahead of you. focus on school and family and don't worry about boyfriends just yet.
enjoy your friendships... if you develop solid close ones now, they'll be around for a long time. haven't you seen crossroads?
2007-03-27 20:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They both seem to like you, but what you should ask yourself, is it your personality or looks?
2007-03-27 20:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋