to find the right woman, or am I just a pig???? WOMEN and MEN, help me out.
2007-03-27 12:52:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reasons for breaking it off is lack of attraction. Is it wierd that I have a problem being attracted to the women I date. Maybe I want what I don't have (yes I know that is a possible awnser to my own question)
2007-03-27 13:01:53 · update #1
Ask yourself why you are rejecting these women. It may not be that your standards are too high, it could just be that you are meeting low quality women. Ask yourself when in the relationship do you lose interest? Are they clingy, insecure, or needy?
On the flip side, you could have a relationship anxiety and could possibly be cutting these women off after you feel that they are getting too close to you. To find the answer to this question, you need to sit down and assess all your past relationships and figure out when they all went down hill. This should help you decide if it you, the women, or both. Hope this helps and good luck to you!
2007-03-27 13:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by MissLady_0318 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong here. Typical reaction. Here's the problem. You are in a society where you are being taught that youth is beautiful. 13 year old girls are being made up to look 19. There is no value to youth anymore except to exploit it. So all this young meat is giving you a false sense of hope that there is some model out there who is just right for you. Go with the values. Figure out what your values are, then find someone with the same set of values.
Example if you think a woman should do everything you tell her, stay at home during the day. and follow two steps behind you when you walk together, you probably won't have a lot of luck finding anyone.
Find out what they like, then treat them as they like to be treated. That's the key. Start worrying about what they want and what they are thinking. That will make any relationship more interesting and more long lasting.
2007-03-27 13:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. I do the same thing. If a guy doesn't feel right or I feel we are better off being friends I break it off. I know I can be picky but is it wrong to know exactly what I want?
Its okay to be choosy because think of it this way if you get serious with someone you want them to be the right person right.
The feelings are always there. You will know when you find the right one, it hits you right in the stomach like a sack of potatoes.
2007-03-27 16:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by p_shell1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking at what these women don't have instead of what they do. Once you can get past the ideals of a partner you are more apt to attract the "right" one. Many people have a list in their head of what they want. Maybe its time too loose the list and try out different people not in your normal category (its not been working already so what do you have to loose?)
2007-03-27 13:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most men have a fear of commitment or it could be the thrill of the chase has dissipated. I don't think there is anything wrong with you i just think you need to take a look at yourself and be honest about what you feel and what you are looking for in a relationship. hope it helps, good luck
2007-03-27 12:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really answer this question because you didn't list your reasons for breaking up with them. It's impossible to tell.
2007-03-27 12:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be, but I think that there is more to it
were you badly hurt by a woman in your past ?
perhaps you can not be committed to a woman because one hurt you in the past & your fear trusting another woman because you think she will hurt you too
2007-03-27 13:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your afraid of commitment.
2007-03-27 12:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by doe ray me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋