Okay this guy i am totally in love w/ trusts me..and i trust him..it just sometimes makes him wonder if i still like my ex if i mention him. I know he trusts me because weve been thru alot [kind of] but he is so pushy about it...but he does the same!! [except he doesnt know that i know when he talks to his exes..i have connections...that i dont even try to get info from!] What do i say??
2007-03-27 12:50:49 · 11 answers · asked by just a girl ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
idk lol but you should tell him ur little INFO lol an tell him you love him an give him a good kiss an say dont wrry about other guys your the only one who makes me go weak
2007-03-27 12:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by trbyrd2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to keep the trust is communication. Let him know that he is more important than your ex but on the same note if you keep holding onto the past you will never live in the present.
Try to keep in mind how you feel when you know he is talking to his ex's and that will give you an indication how he feels when you do talk about yours.
Communication is the key!
2007-03-27 19:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by findingmyself35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a "double standard" which means "do as I say, not as I do"! It doesn't sound like he trusts you and if you have a question like the one you just asked, you don't seem to trust him probably for a good reason. If you have connections that are keeping an eye on him & reporting it to you then you don't seem to trust him either. You both sound too immature for a serious relationship.
2007-03-27 20:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Marilyn H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a case of the person who is guilty of something themselves, is actually assuming the other is doing the same. While it may mean nothing to him that he is still in contact with his exes - he's afraid that it could mean something to you if you are.
Ask him why he's so concerned? Ask him if he feels still feels something for his exes and is afraid you still feel something for yours? If you both agree that you don't - tell him to get off the subject. You are with him, because you've chosen to be.
2007-03-27 20:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Plexed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hate it when their girlfriend talks about their ex alot. So I would tell you to never mention your ex again. If you two really trust each other than he should be able to tell you that he is talking to his ex. Him trying to hide it sounds sort of suspicious. You should talk to him about it.
2007-03-27 19:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers him don't bring it up unless you have too. More importantly it sounds like you both need to work on communicating to each other. Ask him if he talks to his ex, don't be shady and ask others. Also, ask him why specifically he thinks you still like your ex...there may be something more there.
2007-03-27 19:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Janice O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit him down and try and solve the issue otherwise your prob going to end up arguin over nothing or things others have said to you which may not be true
2007-03-27 19:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i would confront him. That's what i would do if it bothered me. You shouldn't be keeping these things from each other. Communication is key to a relationship.
2007-03-27 19:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by chewie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say anything. why would you ever need to bring up your EX? he's old news, leave it buried. talk about it when your 80.
2007-03-27 19:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't tell him directly it would break his heart and maybe his trust. But if you are gonna go with your ex PLEASE dump him first. It would be wrong to do otherwise.
2007-03-27 19:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jim_atthedrive-in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋