I met this REALLY cute girl and we're good friends but I don't know if she likes me and I know that she has a boyfriend. I'm to chicken to ask her if she likes me, what should I do?
2007-03-27 12:45:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Baillie: I liked her before I knew she HAD a boy friend because I consoled(Con-Sole-d), sorry, had a brain fart, when her old boyfriend cheated on her, that's when I realized that I liked her, shes a great person.
2007-03-27 14:20:55 · update #1
I'd say bite the bullet and just ask her, but then I'd be a bit of a hypocrite because I am in EXACTLY the same position as you've just mentioned.
If she has a boyfriend already then you can pretty much guess that your chance has gone, but if you still want to find out what she thinks about you, ask her in a "hypothetical" way - would she like you as a boyfriend if she was single?. You're getting the information you want, she isn't put off from being a good friend to you and you don't have to face any rejection, saving you from utter humiliation.
Otherwise, just say "Look [insert her name here], I really like you. I know you have a boyfriend, but I just want to let you know how I feel. If you don't want to be friends anymore then that is up to you, but I think that I should be honest with you. If you like me the same way that I like you, then great. If not, I hope that we can still be friends." You've cleared the air, you've told her exactly what you think and it gives her the opportunity to tell you how she feels.
If she starts with the "aww" thing, then just say, "Look, I don't want any 'aww's' I just want you to know how I feel and I would like to know if you feel the same way." You've said what you need and stood you're ground. If she thinks you're coming across as arrogant, then just tell her you don't mean to, you just want to say how you fell because you can't stop thinking this way about her.
Hope that helps you, now I'm going to try it and see if it helps me...
2007-03-27 13:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by HiFi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new girl because if you are that much of a chicken i would hate to see how you are when her boyfriend finds you
2007-03-27 19:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by ashlandtree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she has a boyfriend..lay off. Thats pretty philty of you to want to even get kind of close w/ a girl that is taken. Not to be rude..im just telling you...bluntly!
2007-03-27 19:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by just a girl ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend, better play it cool for a while. keep being friends with her, but let her make the first move to get with you.
2007-03-27 19:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has a boyfriend then just be the "best friend" figure untill she breaks up with him. then move in!
2007-03-27 19:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel. if she really likes you she will break up with her bf and then you ask her out. if she is single one day ask her out. and if she likes you everything will fall into place. be confident!
2007-03-27 19:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by jadamiho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out if you're not afraid of her.
2007-03-27 19:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋