my brother has this girlfriend that my family and I can't stand!!?

Question

My brother's gf is a real biotch. I can't stand her, she is so rude and kiniving and well, just plain evil. She is no longer allowed in our house because she called my mom a *****. but we know that they are having sexual relations and I know she is evil enough to try trapping my brother by getting pregnant. She is 15, and the laws in GA say that it is illegal to have sex if you're under the age of 16. My brother is too stupid to get rid of her right now, but I want to do something before he really messes up his life!!! what should I do??

Answer 1

Well, if your brother really likes her he's going to resent everyone who flat out tells him how awful she is. It all depends on how good of a relationship you have with your brother as to what you can say to him. My brother and I get along great so I wouldn't hold anything back.
Is he REALLY aware of how easy it is for a girl to get pregnant? You might remind him without telling him that you believe his rotten ***** of a gf will try it. Speak in general terms when you have this conversation so that he doesn't feel attacked. Also have this talk in private, you could tell him that your friend is trying to trick her boyfriend into getting her pregnant. Don't start rumors about your friends so say it's a girl you talked to on the internet (like me for all I care) or something. Basically try and get him to think about how a girl can **** his life up if she wants to.
Otherwise just leave him alone because he's probably young too and there isn't a very good chance that they'll last.

Answer 2

It really isn't your business. The only way it's against the law would be if your brother was over 18. Maybe he likes girls who are biotches? Have you ever thought about that? Ask him if he's truly happy and if he says yes then why would it bother you? Obviously she has no respect for your family by calling your mom a *****, but teenagers don't see that kind of thing until they're a few years older. He has to make his own mistakes and learn his own lessons. You can talk to him about it and tell him you don't approve, but in the end it is his life.

Answer 3

Sit your brother down and tell him it is not right to have somebody come in your home and call your mother a *****. And he should realize that she is just down right awful. But if your brother doesn't listen to reason then there is really nothing you can do about it. Another thing bad about this is if she does end up pregnant and she is as evil as you say she is , she will use the baby against you. Such as not allowing yall to see the baby if she doesn't get her way. So watch out for her, don't let her set you up. I wish you well, and good luck!!!

Answer 4

Sound like your bro is star stuck by this girl. Most guys between the ages 12-22 are real dogs...especially when it comes to sex. You unfortunately can't tell your bro who to be with, but you sure don't have to be around the girlfriend. Great that she's not aloud in your house. Sounds like she's got a few issues and needs to learn some respect!! Just stay cool with your bro, after all he's there to stay...who knows if she'll even be there next week. PEACE

Answer 5

U need 2 explain 2 ur brother how u feel bout his girlfriend and u should explain 2 him that he is either on ur moms side or his girlfriends side because if she called ur mom a b***** then he should break up with her because first of all he is disrespecting ur mom the lady that gave birth 2 him the lady that sacrificed her life for him and plus there are many other girls out there for him even if they are deeply in love he will choose the side of the person that is more important to him in his life.

Answer 6

Ok I understand your concern and normally I would say back off, but the only thing is you are right about our Georgia Law. With that said, there is an article of the two football players that got arrested lsat year for the same thing, even though it was consentual sexual acts and the girl agreed they were charged with child molestation. I would hate for that to happen to your brother. I think you should make it an effort to tell him about cases like this and keep him informed before he does mess up his life. Do not attack his girlfriend , do not attack his reasoning for dating her..this will only anger him and make him further back away from you and family members...so just be a good sister and tell him the facts.

Answer 7

You're whole family should sit him down and have a calm, respect full, serious talk with him. If she called your mom a cruse word he should have broken up with her. He's putting her in front of family, and he needs to know that that's wrong. Family will always be there for him no matter what, and she won't (but you know that). I hope that everything works out, and maybe if he sees that the family doesn't approve he'll do the right thing. Good Luck!

Answer 8

Have you talked to the girls parents? Tell them to keep the little biotch on a leash, or she is going to get your brother in trouble, talk to your brother, find out what the penalties are in GA for statutory rape and let him know if he doesn't quit, that's what will happen. I know in my state if a girl that young gets knocked up, the parents get charged with child neglect, be sure to inform her parents on that also. Good Luck!

Answer 9

Your brother wasnt thinking because if she's manipulative and disrespectful he got himself into this predicament by letting his dick do the talking. There's really nothing you can do since your brother made choices that wasnt smart like sleeping with a minor which can result in jail time and he will have to provide for the child too.

Answer 10

Don't get in the way. He will figure it out. You will jeopardize your sibling relationship if you tell him what to do or try to break them up. Just ignore her and she'll eventually go away. She probably is doing it to bug your family because she knows you don't like her. She is obviously a sad person, and if your brother is smart, he will catch on before it is too late.