I have been "dating" a guy for 3 months. He is seperated from his wife who cheated on him. He is sooo mad at the guy she cheated with, yet not mad at her. Do you think he's still in love with her? Should I date him? I am afraid I'll get hurt if he goes back to her. I asked him if he would ever go back with her, he said if hell froze over he would. He always tells me how much he likes me and stuff. Not sure what to think about him being so nice to his ex after she cheated on him. Maybe this is a silly question I don't know lol
2007-03-27 12:40:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I guess I would say that I would wonder whether he plans on getting a divorce or not. If he just wants to continue a relationship with you yet is showing no sign of breaking off the marital commitment with his wife even though he supposedly "hates" what she's done, then I think you should be suspicious and rightly so. Yet, at the same time, if he plans on moving out, making moves to seperate himself from his wife, etc. then I think he really is mentally and physically seperated from her.
2007-03-27 12:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by jonathan beechwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok its a little wierd that hes not mad at his ex wife for chetin on him and he might have some feelings still 4 her if i were you i would talk to him and ask him wats up with the whole ex wife topic and tell him 2 tell you the truth and say that you wouldnt mind if he does tell the truth and if it is that way then its better if you just b friends or wait till he gets over her
2007-03-27 19:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nico #66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's not over the relationship. He should be more mad at her than anything. His reply when you asked him about going back to his ex sounds like he is still have feelings for her. I don't think you should date him just yet, maybe be friends first.
2007-03-27 19:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date him. Technically, he is still a married man. That is a no, no. If he is over the fact that she cheated and has not yet divorced or even filed, the potential exists for reconciliation and where would that leave you? You will get hurt. Because the reality is, HE is cheating on her with YOU.
2007-03-27 19:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Zony 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, are you into the guy? if you are then you can give it a go. the thing is that if he's still angry at the fact tat his wife cheated on you, you should let him settle down and forget her before you go so you won't get hurt by him
2007-03-27 19:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know how you feel. ask your self how much you really like him, i thought i loved the guy i was with he was still with his wife when we got together. i didnt i just wanted someone to talk to but thats not what he wanted, i have a 8 month old boy cause i was stupid and thought he loved me but he didnt he went back to his wife and now she is pregnant with their second child.
dont get me wrong i love my son.
but i hope you figure out what to do. i dont know if i was anyhelp.
2007-03-27 20:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard when a person cheats on them... give him a chance, go out to the beach and have fun help him forget his old ex wife and plus its his wife if i was him i would be very sad and its hard to have a relationship with a person thats heart broken.... if you really like him thn help him get out of this nitemare and just have him...DATE HIM
2007-03-27 19:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cupckake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is normal for him to be pissed at the dude, but I would be pissed at her also. I think he still likes her, but wants to get over her, and that is what you're helping him do. Only time will tell now if he is the one for you.
2007-03-27 19:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by grantaloon27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men still contact thier wives, its common, most women however do not. If he is loyal then he's worth a shot. However if he is not, then, obviously, hes not. Its not for anyone else to decide but for you to decide.
2007-03-27 19:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't you two are good for eachother
2007-03-27 19:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋