I wanted to date to begin with?
2007-03-27 12:30:49 · 15 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well we can't all have what we want..i know how you feel..i've been through that and i feells like ****....just wait til you find that one person who really loves and cares about you...not someone who just wants to get in your pants.. i hope this helps you!
2007-03-27 12:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by XxCherry_FallsxX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you either compromised
or the man you want are married ( let me guess, tall, young, well educated, secure finacially, no children, never been married, white, good looking...)
or you do not set you filters ( that is what you do not want in a man ) and thus overlok what would normally be a deal breaker dating wise so you accept what is out there. but as someone else said .. what are you to the men that you want, are you all that they want.. to that end I doubt it. women tend to overvalue themselves and think there is no one else out there like them, while that may be true on paper, it not a reality as sooner or later there will be a younger, hotter version of you out there somewhere and you then realize you are not some rare person but a radily avalible commodity that is direct competition with other women very much like you for a shrinking pool of the "wishlist / dream " guy
2007-03-27 13:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It often happens that we can't have what we want, but look a likes are not the answer.
Do you pick the wrong guy all the time, maybe thats more the problem. If you select only unavailable guys it will never work. But there might be a lot of happy #2's out there:)
2007-03-27 12:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I have the same problems with women. So I guess it's just luck of the draw. At least women have it a little easier. Think about it how many times do you see a bunch of women talking over a guy and working up the courage to ask them out. Not too often unless he's "cute"
2007-03-27 12:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal for everyone, you just dont want to lose the one who you loved in the first place but you have to get over it, I know its hard but in the end it will work out
2007-03-27 12:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by taffyandewok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking us, as if we really are suppose to know why 'you' do this! On top of that you think the people in single and dating are going to know! Is there a psychology section of answers thing? Anyway, I don't know, but I'll the two points!
Thanks!
2007-03-27 12:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you where to find good people to date. DIsney Land. They may be bringing their kids there and have a wife, but isn't that what you are reallt looking for?
Ronals
2007-03-27 12:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by JuliusRomans 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just that u have a specific preference in relationships, or in guys in general. Try and date someone out of your norm, ie a different race, different religion, whatever you,.. but you problem is that you definitely have a strong preference
2007-03-27 12:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are living in a fantasy. You can't have the man you want because you aren't the woman the man you want wants.
2007-03-27 12:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't take your time to get to know someone first. (You date first fell in love, have sex, and then realized that the person is not your dream guy or else). good luck
2007-03-27 12:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋