My girlfriend is going to a club for her friends and it thinking about wearing a ver revealing top? not worried she'll cheat...she wont even dance with a guy...i commented on this but she sorta brushed it off...should i say anything or let it be?
2007-03-27 12:17:52 · 8 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she agrees its revealing but says shes not wearing it for attention but because it looks nice...and that shes not sure if she'll even wear it
2007-03-27 12:18:42 · update #1
she agrees its revealing but says shes not wearing it for attention but because it looks nice...and that shes not sure if she'll even wear it
2007-03-27 12:18:49 · update #2
I'd have to disagree with most of the answers here...
Ok yes it is her body and yes it should be her decision on what she wears. However, if she's in a committed relationship she should think about how her boyfriend feels before she goes to a club without him in a skimpy top that implies she wants to be hit on. (Even if she says she doesn't have that on her mind, it's always going to be in the back of her head.)
I've gone out to the bars with my girl friends from time to time, & I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend, so I really make an effort to wear something that's cute and flattering but not skanky or "asking for it." (Not to imply that your girlfriend is!)
Maybe you could gently let her know that you think she's gorgeous and she SHOULD be able to wear whatever she wants, but it makes you a little sad when she goes out without you, wearing something that you'd expect to see on a single girl who's looking for boyfriend. She's not looking for anyone else, right? She's got you. So, like someone else said in an answer earlier, she should keep the super sexy stuff for strutting around the house in front of YOU, not sleaze bag guys in a club.
Do it - just talk to her, & be super gentle about it, not accusatory. Know that you are in the right. She's been pushing the boundaries a little too much. Good luck!!
2007-03-28 05:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by blondie22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on your security and her self-esteem. I don't go clubbing and I don't have anything to reveal, but if you are secure and trust her it shouldn't be that big of a deal. If your buddies are checking her out in front of you though than I suggest you have a talk with her about your feelings in private at another time. Just explain to her that you don't like watching your friends checking her out and ask her if maybe she could try to wear less revealing tops around.....Tell her to feel free to dress like that around the house in private for you. Maybe she can reveal for you!The clothes don't make the woman though. Don't sweat the small stuff.
2007-03-27 19:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her what is the issue? let her wear whatever the he|| she wants and be proud in the fact that other males out there will be drooling over what you get to enjoy.
It's her body at the end of the day. She gets to wrap it in as much or as little as she wants (and the law will allow).
But remind her of this when she is trying to dress YOU like a homo later on!
2007-03-27 19:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I agree with Chris (first commentor). Don't be too overbearing or protective, it'll just push her away.
2007-03-27 19:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is entitled to wear whatever she wants. You've given your opinion, and that's all you can do. The choice is hers.
2007-03-27 19:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead, girls like to feel scandolous sometimes
dont keep her too restricted, let her be free
2007-03-27 19:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if she likes you she wouldnt and wouldnt go with the shirt
-a girl!!!
2007-03-27 19:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by girlzbestfriendizshopping 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares; if u know she wont cheat; then better for you.
2007-03-27 19:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋