I think I am been used for my kindness. He don't call me as much as he use to. He don't call me baby. I don't know what to do. I am so confuse
2007-03-27 12:16:33 · 2 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do in this sort of situation is give the guy space and see what he does. You need to make him pursue you, not the other way around. Stop calling him or arranging to see him. If he doesn't pick up the slack or pursue time with you, then it's a sign that only one person is working at this relationship. If he is ever mean to you or neglectful,let him know bluntly, without whining, getting emotional, dogging him, manipulating, or nagging on and on. You teach people how to treat you. If you let him get away with treating you like you aren't important to him, you are subconsciously telling him it's ok to do that. Pull away and make him do some of the work. If weeks go by and he doesn't care, let him go.
2007-03-27 12:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have something going on in his life right now that he cant bring himself to talk to you about it which means hes prob pushing you away but not on purpose. my partner did that to me once. he said he thought id stop being with him because of what was going on. he might also be falling more in love with you and realizing it and is getting the cold feet feeling.
2007-03-27 12:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by ang r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋