My boyfriends father passed away two weeks ago,He has not talked to me for that long...Except once i asked him what he has been up to,He replied,Hanging out and thinking...Does that meen he wants to dump me 8lOh also he said at the same time you know i love you...
2007-03-27 12:10:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no if he just told u he loves you do u think he will dump u
2007-03-27 12:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing a parent is a traumatic experience, no matter what your age. He probably just needs some time to grieve. I don't think he wants to dump you. He did make sure you know he loves you. Just let him know you're there for him if he needs an ear or a shoulder, and be patient with him. I was 32 when my mom passed away and I was devastated for a long time. It was 7 years ago and it still gets me sometimes. When a loved one dies you remember all the things you wish you'd said or did but can't and it's hard. Give him some time.
2007-03-27 19:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by okwriting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to understand that guys handle grief different than girls. They tend to bottle up emotions especially in death of someone close. It may take him awhile to come out of that shell he has built around himself. It is a protective barrier that he wants to hide behind. Let him have his space that he needs. If he wants comforting or someone to talk to let him come to you, don't force yourself upon him. Most guys don't work that way.
2007-03-27 19:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him time and let him know you are there for him when he needs you weather it be a shoulder to cry on or just someone to take his mind off of things for a while if you Love him and he loves you things will work out
2007-03-27 19:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by sweetandthick42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to comfert him and if not then give him some space. Then I guess sit back and be patient and see what happens.
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2007-03-27 19:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Emo Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo look give him his space it's not you he just is thinking about all the memories of his dad give him time and he will open up and tell you about how he's feeling
2007-03-27 19:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was talking about thinking about his father;s death...i mean if your dad died, what would you act like? just give him some time...it's probably a realy hard time for him right now
2007-03-27 19:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by luvme4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going through a grief period so all you can do is be there for him.
2007-03-27 19:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your boyfriend's dad died and all you can think of is yourself? Grow up.
2007-03-27 19:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by franny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cheer him up talk to him he is just sad
2007-03-27 19:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋