like me and my best friend were already having issues with each other and when i got my bf we drifted apart and now my parents r forcing us together and their saying that its 'inappropriate' for me to go to his house and they're being really dumb i think. if u have ANY help at all plzzz tell me cuz i just want this all to stop i have enuf trouble with rumors at skool :P
stressed out<3
2007-03-27 12:09:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
like me and my best friend were already having issues with each other and when i got my bf we drifted apart and now my parents r forcing us together and their saying that its 'inappropriate' for me to go to his house and they're being really dumb i think. if u have ANY help at all plzzz tell me cuz i just want this all to stop i have enuf trouble with rumors at skool :P
k the only reason rumors started is cuz sum chick wanted to go out with him and got jealous she told ppl he cheated on me and that weve had sex which we havent. when we go to his house his parents r home the whole time and usually were with them talking or watching a movie or doing sumthing. and the reason me and my best friend r mad is cuz she started talking crap on me to her friends. so hope this clears sum things up
stressed out<3
2007-03-27 12:33:44 · update #1
Your parents are wiser in the ways of the world than you are. It probably IS inappropriate to go to his house. It's especially inapppropriate with parental supervision isn't sufficient at his house. Your parents are trying to make sure that you continue to be the sort of young woman that they trust and respect. Don't mess it up over some boy.
2007-03-27 12:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how old you are. One thing you need to remember and I think a lot of people would agree with me....your friends will always be there but your boyfriends will come and go. You really need to patch things up with your best friend. As for your parents.....they are only trying to protect you. If there is parental supervision at this bf's, house let them know that. Do they not like him? Why? Invite your best friend and some other friends to hang with you guys. Some day you will be a parent.....and you will understand where your parents are coming from. Stop stressing.
2007-03-27 12:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've drifted from your best friend and now trouble with your parents over this guy. I think you really need to sit everyone down and LISTEN to their reasons. No judgments here I'm just saying REALLY listen. People outside of a situation will ALWAYS see things clearer than those in the middle of it. Your parents, especially are FAR more experienced in these matters and are right. I'm not sayign don't see him, I'm saying you need to try to see it through someone elses eyes.
2007-03-27 12:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some news for you; if your having this much trouble managing your life right now, your not going to manage any better as you age. YOUR PARENTS aren't responsible for your bad rep at school only you are - you and how you behave and who you hang with. Guilty by association. If you hang with idiots, people will think your an idiot even if you aren't. Stop being an idiot and let your parents be parents. It's so obvious you don't know much of anything.
2007-03-27 12:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy sweetie, anyone willing to allow him/herself to be the reason for strife within your family should be dropped like an extremely hot rock.
Your parents are only thinking of your happiness and well being for now and the future. If you listen to them, chances are the rumors at school will subside.
2007-03-27 12:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I concurr with your parents. Unless your out of school and of age going to your b/f house is inapprpiate. Who are you going to turn to when he gets you pregnant. You can't blame him because you are going to his home. Only your parents have to pay for it and the pain and EMBARRASSMENT you will have to deal with. So why dont you back-off and tell your b/f you cant go to his house anymore, but that does'nt mean you cant see each other or do things together. Just use a little common cents.
2007-03-27 12:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents are just being a little over protective. they dont feel comfortable about you going over to your boyfriend's house fearing that its a set up for sex. Talk to your parents tell them that you already have problems about this at school and that they are only contributing to the problem. discuss perhaps going to his house with supervision or something something that you and your parents can compromise on.
2007-03-27 12:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by [(Ladiie Karma)] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to let your boyfriend get you pregnant.
I mean, hey, then they'd have to accept your boyfriend seeing as how he's their grandchild's daddy.
J/K - Your parents are probably just trying to keep you and your boyfriend from going/moving too far. They just want to see you happy and successful later on in life...relax and listen to them. I know that's hard to do, but it's what you NEED to do.
Good Luck and Keep your chin up!
2007-03-27 12:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Love Answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just something that parents do. All you can do is prove them wrong and prove to them that you are responsible. I had to do it once. Also set rules and that should ease their minds a little. I mean, there really is no way to "cool" this situation. It's just something that a lot of us have to endure. Hope it get's better.
2007-03-27 12:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by The Random Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if ur like 8-11 ya dont need a bf or even 12-14 and if your older your parents just care about you and are protective(or over protective)
2007-03-27 12:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Manly McSexy/masteroftheuniverse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋