Funny thing is that there are decent guys everywhere. You can probably throw a ball out the window and hit a decent guy. The problem is most women are not attracted to these guys because they are the geeks, nerds, and "nice guys". But most of these guys would be very loyal to you and not just use you for sex.
I would say the same thing about girls... I find it hard to meet a decent girl.. but thats mostly because I'm looking for a Hotty..lol. If I just wanted decent I could find one in about an hour.
2007-03-28 11:51:16
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answered by Anonymous
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As hard as it might be, stay out of bars! This IS a pick up place and most guys don't respect a 'pick up'. They snicker about them behind their backs. Very ugly.
Go to a gym, but don't wear a 'thong like' outfit. This too, has PICK UP written all over it. Gyms are a good place to meet guys and have a chance to talk a bit. Be sure and ask him questions about himself and listen to his answers!! Men love this!
Vocational school is another good place to meet nice guys PLUS, you can learn a good skill that will give you a better paycheck, thus, more independence!!!!!!!!!
Look in the local 'What's Happnen" section of the newspaper and go to a group meeting. Pick a topic that interest you, read a book, and go to the meeting, prepared.
It is so important to keep your standards high!! Watch how you dress, don't use bad language, be a 'lady'. Even in today's world, guys who have been raised properly, by caring parents, are looking for the girl they want to marry someday...have children with, respect and love. Too much make up, tight clothes, 10 " heels, well, if you were a stripper in a strip club, they would love it, but not to marry...not to take home to mom and dad!
I have probably said too much, but this is a subject close to my heart. :}
2007-03-27 19:35:53
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answered by Eve 4
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I don't think it's so much about where you go (sure it helps) but about knowing how to "pick out" a decent guy wherever you go. I had a friend (girl) who was an expert in finding good guys wherever she went; didn't matter where she went- clubs, certain events- she always found the best guys- she said her dad taught her how to separate the players from good guys. You can find the right guy were you least expect it only if you observe a guy a little more and see what he's about.
2007-03-27 19:23:53
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answered by #1bob 4
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you can meet decent guys anywhere that you can meet bad ones.
i met my husband on a blind date. my friend introduced us.
you can try the library, gym, school, or maybe a club of some kind.
what are you interested in? find a group that meets about that. there are good guys out there. don't give up.
2007-03-27 20:19:28
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answered by Anonymous
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decent guys are usually originated from good friends to best friends that u know off, you could try those dating services on the internet if you wanted to try your luck and meet decent people
2007-03-27 19:12:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Become a lesbian, because the era of decent guys has passed.
2007-03-27 19:11:56
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answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6
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hi
2007-03-27 19:12:05
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answered by knerd 2
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there isn't a place for decent guys, there are bad guys and good everywhere..u just gotta wait..there is lots and they'll come along
2007-03-27 19:14:32
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answered by Anonymous
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go to church and join the youth group
2007-03-27 19:13:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Gay bar.
2007-03-27 19:12:52
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answered by typicalmaile 1
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