i like a guy and he likes me back but he is really bad he smokes pot but he is so sweet no one has ever treated me this way before and he says he has liked me for a long time wat do i do?
2007-03-27 12:07:48 · 21 answers · asked by So... Kiss Me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, that totally depends...you have to figure out if he is worth it or not. Are you prepared to be with someone who smokes pot? Generally, it's not a good idea, but these days, everyone does it so it's no big deal. Just don't get sucked into it; don't lose your yourself and don't let him make you do anything you don't want to do (like smoke pot...if you don't want to do it, just don't do it!). Oh, and don't tell your parents that he smokes pot!
So, if you like him a lot, go for it!
2007-03-27 12:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pot smokers come in two varieties: the kind that can smoke at 7:30 AM and get to college classes at 8:00, and the kind that smoke and go nowhere. In this sense, pot is like a thermometer, but as Bob Dylan said, "You don't need a Weatherman to know which way the wind blows." Good luck.
2007-03-27 19:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by bullwinkle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pot well there are a lot of people who smoke it and it doesn't make them bad give him a chance and go out with him
2007-03-27 19:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find out that most people smoke a little pot now and then, it is not that big of deal. If he makes you happy go for it.
2007-03-27 19:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by ilikegivingfacials 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a DA counsellor in a previous incarnation i suggest you set up some awesome strong personal boundaries... Occaisional Marijuana use can lead to other intoxicants being ingested, and is often a symptom of potential further addictive behaviours.. Not saying dont do it.. Am saying go in with eyes wide open and your heart not on your sleeve.
2007-03-27 19:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by puk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if he will quit. If he chooses not to, then he can be just as sweet as a friend too. Most people who turn a blind eye to big issues like that end up in self-depricating relationships and in the end become very unhappy with life in general. Love yourself now
2007-03-27 19:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by faithndragons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks you out say "uh, i like you a lot but, i don't want to get involved if you are going to keep smoking"
if he really likes you he'll stop for you
i know what u feel my whole grade are pot heads
2007-03-27 19:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Margery Stewart Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whats wrong with smoking pot? nothing its not addicting its a plant. what he does away from you and what he does with you is different
2007-03-27 19:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by La-La 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him..then tell him to sto smoking pot..if he doesnt listen...he dont like u and u should find a better more safe boyfriend
2007-03-27 19:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by Miss j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pot screws it up; if he really likes you; tell him to quit the pot. If he doesnt i reccomend not messing with a drug addict, it'll mess you up as well.
2007-03-27 19:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋